How would you compare your experience at the younger age to the experiences at the older age?
2006-09-08 02:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by BabygirlSr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people seem to misunderstand the question so let me add some details....I want to know from MOMs...what are their experiences and how do they see motherhood from both ages.....Maturity, patience, energy...etc
2006-09-08 03:24:13 · update #1
Only Moms who have been there can answer this question the way needed...If you were a mom at a young age and then again at and older age ex. age 18 and then again at age 30 something ....
2006-09-08 03:27:07 · update #2
It was so very different because I was learning what it took to become a mother and now in my 30's I feel more confident and now I have four kids.
2006-09-08 02:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I would think of tthe mistakes I made then and those I make now and see if my brain has increased or shrunk. Of course I wont make the same mistakes over and again,
would also take into account the amount of pain and pleasure I have gone through or went through in both experiences.
chances are that the 16 year old fooling around would've been more fun nd bred more pain.
Sorry, have nevr bn there so I cant tell for sure.
2006-09-08 02:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at 16 yrs old I would be less experienced with life and being a mom then by 30 yrs of age I would hope to be more experienced with life and with being a mother.
2006-09-08 02:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard being a mother at 16 becoz you maybe not have the experience of motherhood and beside that you maybe want to chill out with friends like teenagers do, so you may end up leaving your child to your neighbour or at your parents place and the child wont have the love she/he would expect to have from the mother But being a mother at 30, fine! becoz you do not have childishness in you, you do and handle things like a grown up
2006-09-08 03:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Shannah! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't compare!! Point blank. Different situation different you. Don't beat yourself for anything and have faith I would say. I have a 12y a 10y and a 3y. All totally different everything. No you weren't to young and no your not too old. Why, because the reality of what we deal with is what it is.
2006-09-08 02:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by earthmothermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you were younger, it was very hard to maybe take care of your child but being 30, you are capable of doing what you need to do to keep that child in good health all around.
2006-09-08 02:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you gonna do at 16? you can be a mom. plp think that its so beautful when thy get married at 14 and be a mom at 16 and its not. reality check: their simply not ready and u know wat lov is? its like crack. its feels so good thay once u start u'll never stop and in the end ul end up ovrdosing. y are u even here asking abt motherhood. no one wants to know that ****. ur sick
2006-09-08 03:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
older = more experience
younger+ more energy
2006-09-08 02:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋