2006-09-08 02:19:09 · 13 answers · asked by Nany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe what you have is a feeling of lust instead of love.
Lust is an instaneous attraction between two people. It's often mistaken as love, and lovemaking often accompanies it. Its just physical attraction, and as you would expect, when it wears off. You end up realizing your true feelings.
2006-09-08 02:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by tainted_aven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal IF AND ONLY IF you gave in and had sex when you really did not want to, OR if the person you had sex did it just for the sex and treated you like a piece of meat.
2006-09-08 02:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a healthy conscience, then yes, it's normal. Sex is intended as an exclusive relationship between a husband and wife -- anything less violates are inborn sense of the way things were meant to be. (I'm sure I'll catch heck for my answer from plenty of objectors!)
2006-09-08 02:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by pilgrimchd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal. The most abnormal part is that you keep having sex with this person. Stop and seek psychiatric help.
2006-09-08 02:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fairly common in lower self esteem cases.
Therapy or deep self exploration is the only way to get to the bottom of it. It could have roots in sexual molestaion or some kind of abuse. It may have something to do with the waay you saw your mom get treated as a child. It is hard to say. But valid and worth looking in to.
Change your perspective, and get YOUR sex for YOU, Make sure you got one who is willing to please you, and take criticism so they can hit where you need them to hit. Maybe it is frustration from lack of satisfaction.
Good luck with that.
Good luck.
2006-09-08 02:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Seerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did that person pressure you into sex or take what you didn't want to give,I can;t see hating someone if you wanted to have sex with unless he hurt you and wouldn't stop.
2006-09-08 02:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it´s not normal, but, why do you accept to have sex if you know how you´ll feel later?!
2006-09-08 02:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you do sex with wrong person or u phycologically weak to think urself as "capaable-one"
2006-09-08 02:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Russel Mehedi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
If you don't want to have sex, just say so.
It's not "abuse" if you said yes.
2006-09-08 02:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not.....if you feel he's abusing you contact the police.
2006-09-08 02:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Karen ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋