well my best friends 16(who tell me everything)really like this boy 18(we both talk to this boi but i just really good friends and he open up to me alot about how he feel about her he just finds her dumb at times and that she easy to influnce and lie to and that he cant take her serious he just playing games with her)but the boi has a baby with other girl and she knows that but she still want to be with this boi and have a baby with him she believes that she can be the step mother of his other kids and everything. And she really loves this boi and she only has know him for three months and still has not see him yet there just chat on the fone and everytime they meant to see each other he just stand her up. Should i tell her the truth about all the things he been saying about her or should i just leave her to find out coz i dont want her to attempt an overdose like what she did b4 because she didnt see the boy
2006-09-08 02:17:02 · 9 answers · asked by lil miss sweetheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should be honest with her and tell her the truth, she is your friend. But you should definetly keep an eye on here and look out for her if u say she may overdose. Show her you are telling her as a friend and that you care about her. Good luck.
2006-09-08 02:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm ok Wow ... He's has one kid but she wants to be stepMom to his other kids? Does he have more than one? And if I read this right, he's 18? And she's 16? First there's a probem in that he can be arrested for statuatory rape, because he's 18 having something with a minor. There are so many things that are wrong here. She's too young, he's too young, She loves him though she's never met him, she's a suicidal drama queen and apparently "BOY" is spelled boi where you live. I would get out of the middle of this one. Let that Boi and her work it out - you already know it's not going anywhere, you don't need to be the one to tell her that.
2006-09-08 02:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to tell her the truth.... It's gonna hurt her feelings, but it might be easier coming from you because she knows that she has you as a friend..... (to help confort her) and it would probably hurt more if she were to find out on her own (especially if she found out that you knew the truth the whole time and didnt tell her...)
as for the attempted overdose, she needs to seek help.... No man,boy,woman, or girl is worth someone trying to take their own life for... Especially at 16 years old.....
She has her whole life ahead of her...
2006-09-08 02:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend sounds a bit unstable,she needs more help than you can give her,she really should know what is going on with this boy but you should not have to be the one to tell her it is not your responsibility even though you are her freind,it is his responsibility,convince this guy to quit playing games with her heart and let her go,it's not right to keep her hanging onto something that isn't there,also try to convince your girl friend to seek a therapist
2006-09-08 02:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by onyxpryzm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell the girl. Tell her that you have heard that blahblah the guy finds her at the same time, not betraying the guy's trust. It's important to find out earlier through a friend? I think
2006-09-08 02:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by awkwardsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if I was in this situation I think I would leave it alone and tell the boy to stop playing games. She can't handle it obvisouly and he should know that. I wouldn't say anything to her, I would say something to him
2006-09-08 02:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a friend that would do that to. I'd say that since she is your best friend you should tell her. just figure out a way to let it out slow so she won't get hurt as bad.
2006-09-08 02:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by sea 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God.
Please tell her the truth so that she can move on.
And if she gets suicidal, please tell someone.
No BOY is worth all that!
2006-09-08 02:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,if you are a true freind ,please do it.
2006-09-08 02:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋