been in a relationship for 4years but sex is not a thing for him...his never possessive, even when am out parting/dance hall. he doesnt care like asking who am with..he has never asked me to meet his parents may be a few friends.
2006-09-08 02:11:32 · 18 answers · asked by Nany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You said that he does not like sex.Well my answer to this ,no such thing he does not like sex,sex he does not ask for it just hit him in the back of his head then he go for it,listen i am sure he a good man otherwise you won`t stay with him for 4 years,talk to him see what is bother him may have problem with his family or somebody.With love and understanding i am sure you will take it to next level.Good luck to you
2006-09-08 04:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by astros1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey - maybe he just doesn't like sex for some reason, can't really blame him for that.
As far as if he really loves you, this is a question you would probaly get a better answer to, by asking yourself "does he really love me?"
He's not gay? Must be bi then?
He's straight? well you might want to rethink this situation.
2006-09-11 13:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Chad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4yrs and you have yet to meet his parents.... that's a sign right there... I don't know the whole situation, but as it reads, you are just filling time. I would investigate further, have you discussed plans for your future together? Apply a little bit of pressure. If he gets squeemish, you might want to evaluate the situation... don't waste another 4 yrs....
2006-09-08 09:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetheart I"m sorry to tell you this...but it doesn't seem like he does love you!...if you've been dating for 4 years and never met his parents or his friends...something's wrong there. You need to sit him down and figure out what the future holds for the two of you...life is too short to be worrying about this type of stuff, you've got a life to live....GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-08 09:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Imthelittlesis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating for 4yrs and not met the parents? wow. I would.
Anyway, this whole thing sounds pretty bad. I don't know but something is definitely wrong in this relationship.
2006-09-08 09:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♡Choose Me♡ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4years and U haven't met his parents.... Why.... U should ask him 2meet his parents..... If U2 really love each other maybe counseling will help.... He needs 2open up more...
2006-09-08 09:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you put up with this for 4yrs? Evidently he has someone on the side! I have been with my man for almost 6yrs and I met his parents in the first month. Open your eyes!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 09:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy_jada02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,maybe he wants you to have your complete freedoma nd he respects the fact that you should also enjoy your space....about parents ask him,about it...talk to him...you guys nee to communicate,looks like you guys dont talk and dont share your feelings with each other,if he isnt you need to take initiative and let him know all that you feel and get to know his feelings on that!!good luck!!
2006-09-08 09:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. there is no love there. 2. too trusting. 3 maybe he is gay.
2006-09-08 09:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seams like its time to move on , you nead to be happy in life !
2006-09-08 09:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋