2006-09-08 01:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
How long have you been ttc? I know even a month can seem like an eternity. If you haven't been to your OBGYN regarding this, make an appointment. There could be some simple reason you aren't conceiving. They can run some routine blood test to check for problems, like a hormone imbalance. Also, do you know if/when you are ovulating for sure, and regularly? That is your best chance to conceive. Your OB can prescribe fertility drugs, like Clomid, to help ovulation. I take them because I don't ovulate regularly. It took me 13 months to conceive my daughter, which included going thru a miscarriage as well, so I know what you are going thru. I found educating myself helped me to understand how complex reproduction is and it helped me put things into perspective. I am in my 4th month ttc again. My husband & I tried on our own for 2 months because we thought it might be easier since I already had a baby. We decided I needed to get the help of my OB again. This is my 2nd month ttc using the Clomid. It's so hard to just "relax" when you're ttc. Finding this site has helped me as well. I have found some interesting information and it also helps that I am not alone. Infertility is more common than you think. You can't keep your emotions out of it - you are trying to make life. Of course you are going to get emotional over that. Just don't take it personal when you don't conceive. My OB told me that with everything that has to be just perfect for conception, it's a wonder it even happens at all. BTW - has your partner had his sperm analyzed? It takes two to conceive. Good luck!
2006-09-08 02:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat you are in. I have been TTC for sometime now also and lately I have seemed to get my emotions involved. I is something very hard to deal with. I have decide to try to keep myself busy with a new hobby. I decide to start doing a scrapbook. You could try that, make one of you and your hubby or make one of your relatives or things your have done this summer, etc. You could also pick a different hobby to try. Whatever you do try to stay away from watching those shows that have baby stories and births, etc. It doesn't help and makes you even more upset. Try not to stress over it, they say that if you do stress it plays a major rule on your body and then you will not be able to Ovulate right and other things can get off cycle, try to take a day go to the spa or take a mini vacation. If you would like to talk more, I am willing to talk to you. Its always nice to talk to someone that is going through the same thing you are so that you can be there for each other. Good Luck Sweetie!
2006-09-08 02:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by awesomemommy05 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 21:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard not to think about it. It seems that everyone around you is having kids. I know many girls that had unwanted pregnancies, weren't married, not working, single mothers & are under 20 years old. They had no problem getting pregnant & here I am, married, ttc for over a year & a half. I am trying to distract myself with work & other activities. I know it'll happen on it's own. Good luck to everyone ttc! :)
2006-09-08 05:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by ladycddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possible, I could tell you to keep yourself busy but the minute you see a child then the feeling willcome back
my only answer is ensure that you & your husband don't have any medical reason to stop you from conceiving
once that is out of the way
than you guys can concentrate in other things
and hope that it willhapen soon
Good Luck
2006-09-08 06:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. I too was the same way trying to conceive. It is a very emotional time for your and your spouse. Just know that stress is not good when trying to conceive. It will happen with a little patience. Don't get to work up and enjoy the time you get to spend with your spouse. I was yelling at my spouse and it wasn't good. I was stressing myself out over something that was suppose to be a beautiful time in our marriage.
2006-09-08 02:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI sweetie
I know it's been hard these past weeks but you need to know that i'm in this too and even though it hurts me so much to see you like this and it bothers me also that all I can do is be strong and very patient .Sweetie I love so much and I always will. Whatever happens ,I will always be by your side . I have so much faith in us that you are going to be a very outstanding mother .I can feel that God has something planned for us and when that day arrives it will be the happiest day of our lives.I love you very much and I miss you .
2006-09-08 09:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by your Hubbie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard believe me. I also am ttc for 2 years. I have seen my ob/gyn and hes sending me to a specialist. Just try to keep yourself busy. Do not stress or it will be harder to get pregnant. Relax and breathe.
2006-09-08 08:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by stacydeets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to stress yourself out about it. That makes it harder to conceive. Find something to occupy your time. Scrapbooking, reading, or for me, jigsaw puzzles. That also helped to pass the time once I got pregnant.
Good luck!!!
2006-09-08 03:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by dolphins_chic_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wonderful husband u have (see above). u 2 clearly love each other and want to extend this to a child.
I hope it happens for you soon, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you
x
2006-09-09 02:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋