Ok I have this teacher but shes more like a friend nad i told her about how i feel at home and she was really concerned so she talked to the school counselor. The conselor want to know what i want to happen and she said shes will ing to get me out of my house i wanan go but i cant tell her that i wanna go to my teacher/friends house. waht do i do, heres the story:
Ok My mom adn dad scream at me all the time. They tell me im worthless and that they dont care about me. I feel unloved and unwanted there, and my counselor told me that amazingly this isnt teenage stuff what i explained was worse. She said she wanted to help me, and that se would talk to my parents but I think that that would make it worse, she also asked where id wanan go if she could get me outta the house,i cant tell her i wanan go o my teachers house,i thought that would be to weird but i dont get along with any other family member, My couslelor said it was emotional abuse that i was going through, what do i do????
2006-09-08 01:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's totally fine to want to go to your teacher's house--I grew up in an emotionally abusive home, and I had a teacher I felt that way about. It is important that you get out of your house--I wish I had been able to earlier. I got out when I was 16 by going away to college. You might not be able to go to your teacher's house to stay, but it's important that you let your counselor know. That will help her know what you need in a family, whether it's your teacher's or not. And who knows? You might be able to stay with your teacher temporarily, or for a long time. But if you don't tell your counselor, you won't get the chance to. It's important to tell people about what you want/need, because that's how you take care of yourself. I'm sorry about your parents, but I'm glad you were able to tell your teacher, and I'm glad you have her to go to. Remember that even if you don't get the chance to live with her, you can still spend time with her and make her like a member of your family. Since my parents haven't been there for me, that's what I've learned to do--to choose my substitute moms and dads. Good luck!
2006-09-08 15:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by kacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere along the line your parents need some counseling they had unhappy childhoods but if you tell them you want to leave they will really get upset!! So I would suggest maybe talk to some family members and tell them the truth you are not happy at home you don't want to lose your self esteem and start to beleive that stuff you are a great person and right now you need positive people and things in your life.
2006-09-08 02:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are they are NOT going to allow you to live with your teacher in the first place. They will either place you in the custody of another family member or a with a foster parent.
Yes that is emotional abuse that you are dealing with right now. However your teacher may seem nice to you and you get along in all but you got to stop and consider your teacher is your teacher and she/he haves a life of their own. While they want to help you they might not want you to live with them.
2006-09-08 01:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she asks you again tell her the only person you feel comfortable with is your teacher. It probably can't happen, but it would be worth a try. More likely, if you don't have a friend or family member then you will be placed in a foster home.
2006-09-08 01:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by luveeduvee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is likely that your teacher wont take you ... teachers are supposed to report anything that happens to any of the students ei abuse etc have you tried talking to your parents and work things out... take your time and think about the situation really good before you make any decisions.
2006-09-08 05:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pliz leaving yo home to another might also bring more problems for you other p'ple are very nice when yo not staying with them try to talk to one of your parents when she or he is alone be frank and let him or her know what u feel if they fail to understand u and change then this is another solution.
If u have close relatives pliz trust atleast one and let her or him know what exactly is happening at you home with your parents ask him or her to talk to them.
first study the situation and make the right decision which you won't regret
2006-09-08 03:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Halicate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any firends that you are really cool with and their parents would not mind you coming over there? You do need to get away. What ever you do decide to do remember that you are not worthless!!! Above all else you are a Child Of GOD &
HE loves you more than you'll ever know.
Peace Be With You.
2006-09-08 03:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by im2cute4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss went a touch like this *lips smack*, n twist! truthfully, i'm 21 years previous my first kiss occurred while i became sixteen, I had no theory the thank you to kiss or what i became doing. Do i remorseful approximately it no. N oh yeah it occurred in my basement and it became with considered one of my perfect friends (of the alternative intercourse) on the time.
2016-09-30 11:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask this question just about everyday,you got ur answers.
2006-09-08 09:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋