Why can't people think before getting angry whether it is really necessary to get angry at thi thing???? Or is it necessary to get angry at anything????
2006-09-08 01:19:17 · 16 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This is because at times, nobody cares about your feelings. They just attempt to achieve their evil desires. You are right in the sense that no point getting angry with them. It will just affect your health, make them even happier.
2006-09-08 01:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger is a purely emotional reaction, the catalyst as to why an individual gets angry is completely subjective to the individual. The reason people get angry is also subjective but often there are a collection of triggers and when the stress level reaches the persons maximum amount they explode with anger be it in the form of yelling or physical aggression. To avoid getting angry or to bottle the emotion up only ends up in making the human body grow physically ill because the internalization of such stresses can develop into ulcers, anxiety attacks, panic attacks, heart issues, breathing difficulties, and migraines. In closing it is better to loose your temper but the degree in which one gets that upset can result in further difficulties, so remember everything in moderation is recommended. Good Luck!
2006-09-08 03:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by psychologist is in 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The Causes of Anger
To know how a problem comes about and how to get rid of it, we have to know its causes which can be divided into primary cause and secondary cause. The primary cause is self-grasping ego which can be eradicated by the practice of understanding and realizing emptiness. The secondary cause is frustration which is a step before anger. Frustrations arise when we get cannot get what we want or we get something which we do not want. All these happened because:
1) all sentient beings have too much self-interest or ego;
2) there is no respect towards others. Everybody thinks that they are the most important and unless there is mutual respect, we as well as others be harmed;
3) dissatisfaction which can cause unhappiness because we tend to want to get more when we are not satisfied; and
4) impatience. We should know that things take time to get results but we give up halfway. This also leads us to unhappiness and the generation of anger
2006-09-08 01:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by MANU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just have a short fuse or even seek out conflict for personal validation.
Anger, sadness, or other negative emotions are the result of a person's needs not being met. Someone cuts you off in traffic, then your need for personal space and safety has not been met. Someone steals from you, then your need for trust and security has been violated.
You get the idea.
When you get angry, try to figure out what need of yours has not been met in lieu of reciprocating. If possible, try to communicate that need. A lot of arguments with a "significant other" are two people that have forgotten each other's simple needs, but for whatever reason are afraid to ask that those needs be met.
2006-09-08 02:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we can think before we act there wouldnt have been an expression called as anger. Each act of a person which is done without given a thought about it, we learn about it a lot 'coz then we stop to think about what we did and why we did it. So here starts the procedure of analysing thing, here the learning process begins.
Anger also teaches u lesson.
2006-09-08 01:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by kavitha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I comprehend completely why you needed to maintain this particularly secret for now! I actually do! you have a surprising to be offended, for specific. You depended on those with very specific counsel, and that they blew that believe completely out of the water. on the different hand, i think the call you will desire to make is - is that this occasion nicely worth probably wrecking some relationships. in case you throw a extra healthful or some thing like that, possibly somebody would be harm (alongside with you nonetheless) and which will possibly deliver approximately persevered harm emotions. My suggestion is which you will desire to confer with the those which you informed (and asked to no longer say something) and clarify to them how they have harm you. After that, you will desire to come back to a selection what to do. the two permit it bypass or carry onto it, for sure the wear is accomplished, and while it comes all the way down to it - you are the single you will desire to be disturbing approximately, nicely, you and your considerable different. good success with this crappy undertaking!
2016-12-12 04:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because what happened was not something that they liked / wanted. There is a difference between actual and thinking so a person gets angry.
2006-09-08 02:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like getting a rush of adreneline~~~ that why lots of people just react. But, there are things a person can do if they have an anger problem~~http://www.apa.org/topics/controlanger.html
2006-09-08 01:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason?
God created us to be in his image, to be like him - which is filled with wisdom, peace and joy. He also gave us free will and in our nature have rejected him.
We will never be peaceful until we accept him and turn from our rebellion against him. It is not possible.
Anger is a result of our rebellion. We are fallen and need the Spirit of the Lord in our hearts.
2006-09-08 01:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
about Anger..... It is worth noting that in most asian countries ,,, Thailand in particular.. anger is considered NOT cool....... I have never experienced road rage here.... A Thai can stick a knife in you with a smile , Anger is not nescesary
2006-09-08 01:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋