the past weekend i went to visit one of my friends and didnt mention it to our other friend who was away at school and who is usually apart of our trio...well while me and my friend were partying i was pretty stoned and i called our friend and when she asked where i was i said i was with my brother..but i didnt mean to tell that lie i just couldnt say im with so so cause apart of me knew she would be pisst that she wasnt there and it just flew out my mouth -but she was at her own party with other friends..she is a drama queen and is always upset if we dont tell her everything we did if she isnt there...we had an argument yesterday about it and she says she wants an apology for me lieing about where i was -she didnt even ask me what i did she just bit my head off for not saying where i was but i feel like i dont have to tell her everything if i dont want to ..i dont want to apologize but i dont want us to stay angry at eachother..should i just cave in and say sorry
2006-09-08 00:55:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
o and another thing-she took me off her myspace and blocked me!
2006-09-08 01:23:44 · update #1
Its just a apology ... lets see don't apology, and have one of my best friends mad at me .. or if do offer a apology her feelings are no longer hurt.
Just do it!
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-08 00:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like you might not want to really apologize, which I do see your point, especially, when you're dealing with the drama queen. So don't apologize, which might be a different answer than what others might be telling you. Being angry... that eventually goes away, it really does.
The truth will set you free! Take control of the situation. You don't have to apologize, but put it in a way that there are times and things that you do that should not have to report to her, even when you are asked. It's not only protecting you, but also her. Sounds like she was having some fun at her party and that didn't bother you.
Yeah, it might have been a lie from what you said, but a little bending before it breaks, won't kill ya!
Party On! She'll get over it!
2006-09-08 01:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should say you are sorry for lieing, but also talk about her drama. tell her the truth that you were afraid of telling her where you were cause you were going to fly off the handle. she should not get that upset about not being a part of the group if she is already at another party doing her thing. maybe if she was sitting home by herself, then i would say that sucked of you not to invite her, but i would be straight out honest.. i am sure you all can talk like adults. i know it is hard when it is a trio of girls.. why cannot 3 girls all get along.. it happened in every situation..
2006-09-08 01:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who get upset very easily usually are ticking time bombs and will get upset continually at something.
I think she did you a favor by blocking you. If something didn't trigger her off today, it would have triggered her off sometime during your friendship. Leave well enough alone and don't apologize. If the friendship is that meaningless to your girlfriend, let her go. She is not your friend. She definitely over-reacted.
You sound like you are a very bright person. There will be many people in and out of your life, during your life. Don't begin or maintain any friendship by having to walk on egg shells just to have a friendship. It's not worth it.
2006-09-08 05:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to apologize... But I would make it clear that you are apologizing for lying, not because you were visiting your friend without the other one.. Just because you are a "trio" of friends, doesn't mean that you have to be "stuck up each others rears", so to speak, at all times..
But lying is never the answer... It just makes you look quilty of doing something wrong, which the way I see it...you didn't..
2006-09-08 01:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should apologize for lying to your friend. As far, as if you should have called her to tell her you were going out with your other friend. No...It is not a crime that you didnt include her. Everyone needs to do their own thing every now and then. But you should apologize for lying, because you are in the wrong for that.
2006-09-08 01:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was concerned when I read the response to your previous question about teaching.
I would take Irene's response with caution. It is clear from her awkward grammar and vocabulary that she is lucky to have achieved teacher certification. However, teaching is still a good career, all things considered, for minorities who may be limited in career choices. At least in teaching, a minority teacher will be given special advantages and protection that he or she won't be given in other fields.
I'd tell you to improve your English skills too, but evidently that no longer matters for getting a teaching certificate.
As for apologizing to your drama queen friend? Apologize if you want to keep her friendship, but don't apologise if you don't want her as a friend.
2006-09-09 12:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by humble one 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should'nt have lied about it. Being part of a three friend belt is good because you are not alone when you need someone to talk to. There are going to be times when you hangout together minus one, and that one might be you. When you lied and said you were with someone else it sounded like you intended to push her out. It's good you apologized.
2006-09-08 01:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes apologize for the lying, but not for inviting her to come along or anything else and the next time you go visiting don't get drunk and call her.
2006-09-08 00:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should apologise for lying but explain why you felt the need to lie in the first place
2006-09-08 00:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by cheeky_delinquent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋