i met somebody for 10 days and fall in love,after that we could never meet or see each other,and then i got married somewhere else,though i love him still since last 14yrs,i know i could not even get him now b'coz i'm happily married but still i'm unable to forget him any time or day,what should i do?i'm so upset,b'coz i'm unable to forget him.
2006-09-08 00:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know abt his whereabouts and also know that he still is bachelor and he still loves me.i found him on net actually but we dont chat as such.
2006-09-08 01:25:47 · update #1
You need to move on..............Only you are keeping this fastasy alive with your thoughts and wishes and dreams.................If you are to meet again sometime down the road, then it will be fate and it will happen..........In the meantime don't deprive your current husband whom you say you love, of your love...........The years go by fast and you should enjoy life as you know it today!!
Quit thinking about him.it's up to you to stop this and you upset yourself...........He has moved on....You should do the same for your own sanity!!!!!!!!! Tell your current husband that you love him again.Keep these fires burning, or you are out of luck
2006-09-08 00:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,just grow up!!when you know things are not gonna work why are you even letting it affetc you...one side you say that you are happily married and the other says you have someone else in your mind,then how can u be happily married....accept the fact that this is life,you dont get everything that you desire in life so learn to live happy with what you have...its been 14years and you have someone else in your mind,trust me if it was true your marriage would have lasted so long,the fact that you are still hppily married is proof enough that there is no love for anyone else,its just thst you have nothing to do and so want to just complicate your life by writing such questions and trying to gain some sympathy!!be happy and keep others happy in your family!!good luck!!
2006-09-08 01:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about him, and put your energies into your husband.. 10 days vs. 14 yrs...(hmmm..) Seems that should tell you something.. If it is mean't to be for you and him, it will be... You hear of ppl all the time, reuniting with "the love of their life" even years later, but if you neither seen or heard from him in all these years, I would forget about it and be truly thankful for what you have...
2006-09-08 00:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you probably did no longer tell your fiancee on the subject of the ex then your fiancee could think of your ex nonetheless is a enormous deal to you...i thoroughly understand that he has no place on your heart n existence yet your could fiancee think of the in any different case... tell the ex asap that your getting married...if he has already been harm with the help of you its because of the fact he deserved it...dont sense in charge...i wager he knows...
2016-12-18 06:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him go and get him than only it will be said as true love
2006-09-08 00:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, rest assured he has forgotten you for sure.(sorry to disappoint)
2006-09-08 00:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Syntax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married leave this other guy alone all it will do is cause everybody pain
2006-09-08 02:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by mary_nath1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ani't got no choice now,Hon!
2006-09-08 00:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be thats ur first love , isn't?
2006-09-08 00:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by M r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation honey, so don't worry about it. Please get in touch so we can discuss this further. sonia4uuk@yahoo.com
2006-09-08 00:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by sonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋