what must we do if we know that we are dying?

Question

For an advanced cancer patient, sometimes it's very hard to accept the no hope becasue all treatment fail, and that's mean dying.

sense very clear that health is worsen for every passing day, and death is coming, and that make me very affraid. Stil cannot accepted this because still very young and do not want to die.

how to do please?

why this happened? I'm still very young. Before this I'm a happy teenager with so much hope of life, but now.... this really drive me crazy

so far all the answer tell me to accept this, but I cannot accept this. I'm just a young teenage girl and not ready for this yet.... may be if i've grown very old, but not now.

Answer 1

"Hello dear mfrsiska!
I'm no professional, I don't know what to tell you.
I can offer you my personal experience.
During the year 2000, I started feeling weaker than normal. I didn't really suspect anything until about 2003. The lymph glands in my neck were consistently swollen. There wasn't any pain, but, they stayed swollen. Finally, my Doctor decided to send me to a specialist. There, the specialist found my problem in about 10 minutes. I had a sever case of cancer of the throat and it was in it's last stage ... the 4th stage. The estimate I received was that I had probably 6 months to live.
I was kinda numb. I didn't know what to feel. I didn't know what to do.
The specialists put me into chemotherapy and then, radiation. I spent 3 months in the hospital. I never felt like giving up all hope. That's just the way I felt. I'm not giving up until my last breath! I don't give up on anything until it's over.
Fortunatly, the chemotherapy and radiation treatments solved my cancer problem. It was unexpected. I thought I was gone, but, the treatments worked. The cancer has disappeared so far. My doctor thinks I may have 5 more years to live if everything stays the same as it is right now. I'm just not worried about it. I've known I was gonna die sometime anyway. I still don't worry about it, even if I must go tomorrow.
I don't know what is fair or unfair about it all. I don't really think about what is fair or not. It just "is."
I feel really concerned about you though. You are too young to go, in my opinion. I wish I knew who or what could prolong your life to the normal range, but, I don't believe anyone knows.
Please remember, above all things, that you are not alone with these life threats. Now, I'll be thinking about you all the time."

Answer 2

No one can tell you that it's OK. I can't. All I know to say to you is start making peace with God. God must need you more then this Earth needs you. I will Pray for you. Don't ever give up on life until it's almost over. You can still Type. Wow! That's good! Pray Pray! Then make peace with yourself and your family and try to let go and don't worry about dying so much. Trust me. Dying will take care of it's self. I can't say anything to you because, it's just so sad. I'm so sorry for you. "Chimpmunk said it all in her answer to you". Ask Jesus Christ into your life.God Bless You!

Answer 3

It's hard but you have to tell your self you are going to a better place where you don't have to worry about cancer or any other heath problems. You will be pain free. If you have kids its great to talk to them and make sure they know and understand it. Most kids don't understand death because its never explained to them. Anything you might want your family to have or know make sure you get that all taken care of. You will want to make sure your family knows your wishes and will respect them.
Might even be a good ideal to seek counseling to help you come to better terms with things and to help others do the same. Cause is hard on others around you as well as you.
My grandmother recently passed away in her home with her family all there. Hospice worked with the little kids and gave us books to give them and to help them better understand death and that its ok to grieve even for a child. I suggest you also make peace with anyone who your really care about cause they will regret it if not. My grandmother wouldn't talk to her sister and her sister would not come to the service or even come to say her goodbyes before she died. She now realizes she was wrong to do that and wishes she would have at least said goodbye.

Answer 4

Go live the fullest.And isn't it better if u know u r dying and you can correct d things that u've done wrong or u have the chance to change ur life and live it to the fullest than dying without having the chance to correct things and live it to the fullest?I know you must be feeling really sad and depressed but hey,at least you know that you r dying.No offence.God bless.May God be with you.

Answer 5

The anticipation is often far worse than the event. Faith in your beliefs, whatever they may be, is often the road to peace. Lets never give up on hope and inner spirit, for the drive to continue is often the greatest comfort.

Answer 6

Ask your health caregiver for a counselor. This is someone who is trained to help you deal with your fear & maybe give you hope. If you don't want to go this route then spend lots of "tea time" with important family & friends. Someone close to you may have the answers you are looking for. Please don't give up hope - live & enjoy life. God Bless

Answer 7

you should know that the hope dies the last.
in italy the doctors have told to a woman that had cancer called jesu bambino that she would die,but she still lives and makes a normal life.live a normal life like all.you are not different.

Answer 8

Michael Jackson became a genius and his loss of existence is a genuine real loss yet advantageous,youthful,harmless,gifted human beings die conventional in lots worse approaches.i comprehend it sounds chilly besides the indisputable fact that that's real!! chuffed Birthday Michael !!

Answer 9

Just try to enjoy every day that you have left. Enjoy time with your family and friends. Try to resolve any heartache that could be left between you and your family or friends. Be strong, I wish you well.

Answer 10

Everyone in this world is going to die...but knowing that u r going to die and day by day ur health is going worse... its very hard to tell u... live happily till u meet it.... do good things to other... i feel sorry for ur position...