My boyfriend has a really good eye for womens clothes and often chooses nice things for me to wear. He is always thinking what outfits to go with different styles. He likes clothes shopping! Does that mean he could be a secret cross dresser?
2006-09-07 23:14:50 · 47 answers · asked by Lorraine A 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
no, he is probably just gay...
2006-09-07 23:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Steve F 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
No not necessarily! I think you may be over analyzing this. Unfortunately this is a stereo type which society has set. There are lots of very successful male fashion designers. Some of which are straight as a line. Your boyfriend just has a good eye for what looks good on women. Maybe he wants to become a fashion designer but is too embarrassed to say it. Since society has put a stereo type on men in this career. But if you are concerned this to be true either come out and ask him or check your underwear drawer when he's been left alone.
2006-09-07 23:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think, he is taking an interest in the things you like. He clearly wants to see you dressed nicely. I wouldnt think he was a cross dresser myself, he would be wearing the clothes. But to be comfortable and help you shop is not so bad. Clearly he loves you dearly.
2006-09-10 00:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does a man either have to be gay or a cross dresser to have a good eye for clothes or fashion? If he's got good taste and likes going clothes shopping then it sounds like you have a real catch there.
2006-09-07 23:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tuppence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it but some men actually enjoy going shopping with their girlfriends etc the only time i would get worried about them is if they r secretly shopping for themselves but unfortunately more and more men are beginning to be brave enough to stand against the current trend and say look I'm a man still but i do like to go clothes shopping as well and any way more and more men are starting to understand how women feels etc its called getting in touch with their softer side does that auto matically make him a gay person or a secret cross dresser ????? i don't think so!!
I'm straight but i like going clothes shopping and in fact my female friends and family members always ask me for my advise on how they look or if the colour suits them
if u deep down really think ya b/f is a secret cross dress or gay then u need to ask him the question out right
2006-09-10 13:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by ck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would doubt it very much, he just has a good fashion sense. I would be a bit worried if he started trying things on, but then again he's not hurting anyone. If he is a cross dresser it wouldn't automatically mean he is gay. I think he just enjoys fashion and styles maybe you should encourage him to follow this career path if he is good at it.
2006-09-07 23:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not quite neessarily. I think you would know if he was, and if you've been intimate.
Does he wear shirts that button from the left? Or slacks without flies? What colors does he wear for himself? Does he tend to try to avoid the bulges in his clothing from wallets, keys, or kerchiefs and change?
Look at his closet for clues. Only if you find some heels, or a stash of panties, should you suspect crossdressing.
And why don't you ask him? If you do, be prepared to tell him whether you'd encourage this, or not.
2006-09-07 23:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys want their gals to be pretty & attractive and they want to showoff the same to all their friends with an inner feeling of proudness. Hence do not mistake your boyfriend a cross dresser. If so then he would not buy you the clothes but secretly buy for himself.
2006-09-07 23:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, why don't you ask him?
If he is a cross-dresser it's nothing to worry about it's unlikely that he is also gay for example.
On the other hand he might just like fashion. Not everyone fits a gender stereotype.
2006-09-07 23:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, he just sounds like a metrosexual! I feel your pain. I've got one of those too- he isnt so fussed about what I wear but he likes clothes shopping for himself, I once got an email from him describing a shopping trip in great detail. And I am having to make a real effort to cleanse his wardrobe of the colour pink.
2006-09-07 23:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think so!!
Count yourself lucky!!
I could come downstairs in something trully awful and my boyfriend would still say i look fine just to hurry up and get out!As for going shopping together...dont even go there!!He stomps about the shops like a big horse in a huff and of course we end up squabbling!!
2006-09-11 11:24:59 · answer #11 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋