how do you get your boyfriend to..want to be with you more and want ya more??..because me and my boyfriend have been having little issues...since we just had a baby and all yeah we are both 17 well he's going to be in november...im just 4months older then him..but yeahhh we rarely get to spend anytime together because we both dont drive yet but i will be soon ...but yeahh we dont get to either because he has soccer and is trying his hardest to get a scholarship...because he is capable of geting one...and he has been busy helping his uncle or his dad's friends in order to get money..yeahh so i was also wondering what do ya think we should do to make time to spend with eachother more??..and how can i get him to be the way he use to be around me without trying so hard and being annoying...yeahh i just need some advice...o just to let ya all know im still in highschool and this is my last year..iam not a drop out!..the school just gave me home school until october since i just had the baby
2006-09-07 22:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and..just leting ya all know he does love me and our daughter!:)
2006-09-07 22:49:32 · update #1
Things will never be the same you have to realize now you have a child . So that alone is enough to make some guys a little scared. One thing I did was I talked with my partner and asked them to listen to all the things I had to say. Not just hear me but really listen and that might help you get things to normal.
2006-09-07 22:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lost Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you, sounds like you're a pretty smart girl with a good guy. Honestly, is sounds like he's spending all his time away from you to support you and your daughter. I think the only way you could spend more time together is to live together. I'm kind of in the same situation. I'm a work-oholic trying to keep a woman and my kids happy and give them everything they want. I think the only time I go home is to eat, shower and sleep...then it's back to work again. Sometimes two or three different jobs. But when you do see him, let him know how much you appreciate him. Not all guys get to hear that from women.
2006-09-08 05:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, if your parents can pick him up and bring him over for a night of you together and see if your parents will go spend a night out, that way you two can save a little money watch a movie eat dinner and still spend time with the little one. Any maybe even talk. See if you can do that at least once a week I know it's hard when you don't see the one you love everyday it puts a dent in the realtionship. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-08 05:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~Bethany~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that he is doing all this just to assure you all a great future..And I think that if you want to spend some time with him talk to him...you will not resolve the problem by asking us what to do!!!!
2006-09-08 05:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Crogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you ...staying in school but as far as the other part you have to make a decision do you want him to be a responsible father ..go to school, college, good job or do you want him to be stuck up your butt... it sounds like to me he is trying to do the right thing by making some money as long as he is helping you with the baby.
2006-09-08 05:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by wicked jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is maybe a littel scard becouse u just had a baby.but don't u think u made a mistake by having a baby u know what i mean u just lost ur u know........but i really don't know what should u do,becouse i would never do what u did with my boy friend.
2006-09-08 06:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Caralet_Valentine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's spending more time getting money...dont u think he's doing it for u2?
2006-09-08 05:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lambada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he is earning for both of u.
2006-09-08 06:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow him more?
2006-09-08 05:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by poiuytra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋