I am estanged from my wife and I met a really pretty,sexy lady who we just seemed to hit it off and we made love many ,many times stayed in each others place , she said she would be there and we had "plans".......but now I call and she never ever calls me back ...its been 2 weeks....I have left her many messages and I GET ZERO ...oh ah ....I really like her ......what I think ,is to lay back............but that gets me nothing, I know shes been busy BUT... Ladies and gentleman please share some in sight keep in mind that I really like her.
2006-09-07 21:59:45 · 18 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, been there myself....What you dont want to do is , make yourself obsessed, or jump to conclusions...DONT make a mistake, leave her alone and assume that she has something else in her life atm, that she needs to focus on....Sometimes no means yes, but in this case the next move is hers....So id say put the feelings on the backburner and move on...If she wants to contact you, she will....Id break off contact, or she will have a feeling of being stalked, and you never know what a woman might do in a case like that...It might get ugly...and often does
2006-09-07 22:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real and stop calling and sending messages. A fling is just a fling and then it is time to move on to another. I won't hurt to call once a week to see if she answers but no more than that. Get on with your life. We do not always get what we want and have to accept something or some one else. I have been around many years and have had several come and go. I liked all of them and still do. am with one now and have been for several years. She may decide some day to go, I don't know. If so then I will go find another. No I will not marry any of them.
2006-09-07 22:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even people who are busy can manage to make a phone call within 2 weeks. I know you like her, but I think she may be moving along now.
Sorry. I know this is not what you want to hear.
2006-09-07 22:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u keep on calling and there's still nothing, let it go and keep living your life. There could me so many reasons why she's not calling and I can't even begin to tell u what those reasons are. Don't wait around for her to call u. If she calls, great. If she doesn't...oh well...life goes on.
2006-09-07 22:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue. She met someone else. You aren't the flavor of the week any more.
Don't beg. Don't nag. It's embarrassing. You were lucky to have the time you did with her. Move on.
Good luck!
2006-09-07 22:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just busy, give her some time and space to think over ewhat she wants to do, and how she feel about how things are between the two of you, its not all about what you want.
2006-09-07 22:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could the baggage be too much for her? She could also feel like the rebound. If she truly wanted to be with you, she'd be calling, seeing you doing whatever it is to be close with you.I'm sorry, but maybe its time again to move on.
2006-09-07 22:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you do really like her. That's the problem.
Don't expect to ever hear from her, and watch yourself. Angry brothers, restraining orders, etc.
2006-09-07 22:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me, that for whatever reason, she's decided to blow you off. Don't take it personally...move on and take care of other things in your life.
2006-09-07 22:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by prayinfroggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude its over. dont listen to your mind..listen to your heart,its over and you know it. nobody is so busy that they dont call someone they care about for 2 weeks...thats it guy, get over it and go on
2006-09-07 22:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by recon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋