it was right away...i didn't ask because i don't want to be the jealous naggin girlfriend and i trust her. Well finally 10 minutes later she said "yeah that was my best friend" i was fine with that. well about 20 minutes later one of my friends sent me a text message asking me about going to a football game tomorrow and we texted back and forth for like 2 minutes. my girlfriend went crazy, saying "i guess texting is more important then talking to me, so i'll let you go and she hung up on me". oh yeah she also added she don't know why people are texting me so late. i was so mad ..it's like it's ok for her to get calls that late...but not me...i'm hurt because we were talking about getting engaged. what do ya'll think???
2006-09-07 21:43:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think when someone reacts like she did...it might mean something.Let me explain why...
I had an exbf who was extremely jealous. And he would always criticize me about clubbing or meeting anyone, saying "you have to be like this and that".
I left for 2 months for a trip, and came back, of course we were still boyfriends and kept in touch everyday. And the first thing he said to me when i came back was "I love you".
Two days later i went clubbing. A guy came to me and asked me if i was my Boyfriend's friend. I said "no, im his boyfriend". He was also his boyfriend. He came to me coz recognized me from a picture my boyfriend had shown him of me saying i was his friend.
That night we both broke up with him.
So, please pay attention to this, people will react when they know they might be doing it themselves. Don't overreact without proof, but always listen to your intuition, it is almost always right.
2006-09-07 21:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a jealousy issue. make sure this is resolved before you get engaged, or it will only get worse throughout your relationship. tell her that you trust her and that she should trust you the same. you were not trying to offend her that is that. from what you said it sounds like she over reacted. People usually don't do that unless they feel threatened in some way.
2006-09-07 21:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a clever ploy to make it seem like she's mad and you're guilty of an action. This way she has total control over you until she "forgives" you. KEEP TEXTING.
By the way, are you a lesbian or is your display picture just a decoy?
2006-09-07 21:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by MikeG 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its the over protectiveness coming out, my gf is exactly the same as yours... she doesnt like other people talkn to me, but its okay for her to talk to any one she likes lol... sometimes i get pissed off at her, but most the time i know shes just trying to protect me and she wants me all to herself.. why dont you sit down with her and tell her it bugs you... it cant help to talk about it right... good luck
2006-09-07 23:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone has a bad jealous streak there babe
you need to sit and have a talk together
2006-09-07 21:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to quit whinning
2006-09-07 22:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋