since he doesn't have any family (as in mother, father, siblings...) i think he is stuck with me but i don't love him anymore and he doesn't want to annul our marriage!...please help!
2006-09-07 21:30:26 · 17 answers · asked by eaaangg... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
fyi-there's no divorce in the philippines!...and i got married when i was only 17 only because i was pregnant, stupid me!, curiousity & a rebel! anyways,..he was and always been a womanizer and didn't support me and my kids (we have 2) since day 1!...as in since day 1, but instead, he's living comfortable with my parents' hard earned money!...
2006-09-07 21:45:05 · update #1
take the help of a marriage counselor to rework the magic
2006-09-07 21:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living a lie-you must do something about this,your relationship is pointless.Marriage is not something that you can treat like something you bought out of a shop-you absolutely love it one minute-but soon the love wears off so you take it back to the shop and get your money back.I don't think counselling will work for you-you seem fairly adamant that you do not love this man anymore,and no amount of"re-kindling" is going to put it right-so do the decent thing and put the guy out of his misery,get a divorce and let him start a new life without baggage,then you are free to hurt someone else's feelings,a good result all round for you:-)
2006-09-07 22:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's living well off your money, why would it matter to him if you tell him you don't love him anymore, anyways? I don't think that he would care. I'm pretty sure it is NOT illegal to divorce in Phillipines... Since he's such a womanizer, why don't you start getting good Private Investigators and get some evidence to bring to court.... and make sure you get all the proofs that he's a BAD husband/father/person..... So you get to keep your money.
2006-09-07 22:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by shuddupfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean u've fallen out of love with him? Sounds like u just got married to him out of convenience and now that you're not inlove with him, u want out. Just tell him how u feel. No use buttering it up cuz it's not going to change how he feels at the end.
So do him a favor and get a divorce and let him find someone worthy of his love.
2006-09-07 21:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry him in the first place?
What makes you think anyone else will fix the problems within you that are causing you to seek 'other' than your husband?
Can you communicate with him at all? Maybe counseling could help.
The grass isn't so green as you might think and divorce for this reason is a HUGE deal killer to any other man who will ever find out about it.
2006-09-07 21:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! I can't say I no how you feel but, honesty is always the best. Better to go ahead and let him know than to drag it out. My advice is tell him....Hey I love ya as a friend but, not as a husband. There is someone out there for both of you to love....the way things are neither of you will be happy. Good luck my friend My prayers are with ya....
2006-09-07 21:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sissy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to sit down with your husand and work out the situation and no matter what is the out come, does not matter keeping the married or getting a divorce
2006-09-07 21:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you leaving? If you cannot stay with him try to go to marriage couseling that might be the easiest forum in which you can divulge that you are out the door, but leave him with a little closure...
2006-09-07 21:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by jsbrads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He deserves to have someone who loves him - and there is someone out there who he'll eventually find. You deserve to be happy with someone too - who you'll love and he'll love you..So maybe the best thing is for you both to go find the happiness that's out there waiting for each one of you.
2006-09-07 21:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't just fall out of love with somebody unless you hav found someone new! i know tha pain of stayin with some1 who dont love you, and i think he is better off without you. GET A DIVORCE!!!!
2006-09-07 21:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by atha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋