Some gays men act like themselves. But some purposely choose to act like the rudest and/or most obnoxious women out there.
Out of all the character traits to choose from, why the b*chiest women? I'm talking about the loud women that lack class, thats always dramatically shake their heads & wave their hands when they talk, & seem to want all the attention they can get. & every overly feminine body movement, is to get people to notice them.
Most importantly, they are usually rude to most people who don't fit in their type of click. Very passive aggresive for no reason. You see them as cashiers or waitresses sometimes, who aren't polite when you are polite to them. They don't look at you when they talk, or when you talk. Don't say your welcome when you say thankyou, or even say thankyou or have a good day like normal cashiers & waitresses are suppose to when after you leave.
Why do some gay men choose to act like this? Do they think it's cute?
Thoughts?
2006-09-07 20:53:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And no, I;m not trying to be a homophobe, I;m just asking a question to learn more about behaviors in society.
2006-09-07 20:54:02 · update #1
jeboshea - Some of these women might have PMS. I know some women who have it bad, get terrible headaches, pains, etc, and so they act b*tchy. Gay men don't have PMS, it's just an act.
2006-09-07 21:03:03 · update #2
ancutzabatalar - Thats interestingly put. Also, yeah, the lesbian thing may be my next question.
2006-09-07 21:04:51 · update #3
mike p - Hahaha!
2006-09-07 21:05:23 · update #4
kittens - Good point, but realize that most of those "straight" guys that harass you are mostly likely not straight, in denial of their gay/or bisexuality, and taking it out on you. Why else would they be so mad at you. I say this from what I've seen and witnessed.
Secondly, the gay guys that act the way I explained above are Over Acting, the guys who threaten you are truly, genuinly irritated. Don't confuse NATURAL BEHAVIOR, with PLANNED BEHAVIOR.
2006-09-08 07:27:40 · update #5
IndyT - That makes sense. With that said I'd like to add that it seems that these kinds of gay guys, and many epople in general, act with Planned Behavior, and are not being themselves. They aren't being who they naturally are. I see a lot of straight guys act all the time, many arne't even really striaght but they pretend to be, which is why it's an act. Some are actually straight and are genuinely being themselves.
2006-09-08 07:32:02 · update #6
ishelp4 - Gender non-conformity is one thing. What many of these gay guys that I see doing thins is another. It's just like how some black guys alwasy act super hardcore and thuggish like what they see in music video's. Their only emulating what they see on TV or what ever the new action is to be considered manly and tough.
2006-09-09 13:17:15 · update #7
I have to agree with everything you said 100 ******* percent.
And I am gay.
It's just so goddamn annoying! They do it because they think they have to be the stereotype to be gay, it's so damn stupid!
2006-09-08 07:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Adam G 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Many children had a gender nonconformity when they was small, and grew into that mold. Not all children that have a gender nonconformity become gay. It is a separate issue
Many children with undiagnosed gender nonconformity do become gay. We do not have enough information to say that as many will become gay if children in the present or future have early diagnoses and treatment. Today it is likely to be treated as a pre requirement to most likely be gay. Though many children that do not have a gender nonconformity also become influence and make a Innocent choice or will choose to be homosexual.
The studies are saying that a hormone imbalance can be the cause of gender nonconformity. They have not included much topic about the children that learn characteristics that give them a perceived gender nonconformity. I believe the more the hormonal imbalance can play a role in rather a child wants to be the opposite gender that they was born, and that is a separate issue in itself as well. Many children that learn characteristics that they perceive to have a gender nonconformity often do not want to be the opposite gender. Often children grow out of gender nonconformity as well.
2006-09-08 12:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that's their personality. . . ? why do some straight men act like obnoxious humans? why did a particular straight man threatened and harrass me just the other day? why not choose a different character?
2006-09-07 22:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by kittens 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of Gay community doesn't know what Gay means. Gay=have another sexual orientation. The fake Gay think that Gay=transgendered, but is TOTALLY wrong. When you are Gay, you don't need to act like a 'rude and obnoxious woman'. That means you are a transgendered. I have a friend which is a doctor with Highest Honors, he acts like a man and in his private life, he has a husband and he adopted a child. If you are Gay, you don't need to pretend you are a woman. Gay is just another sexual orientation. And, to complete your question, you should know Lesbian act like man. Odd, huh?
2006-09-07 21:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by ancutzabatalar 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Because they think it makes them important and they think that acting that way gets them attention. The best way to deal with flaming queens is to ignore them and they will vanish into thin air.
2006-09-07 22:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by kingofnarniaforever 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The same reason some heterosexual people act the way they do. They are individuals. Jerks are jerks.
2006-09-07 23:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i suppose you could also ask why those women act that way. or why anyone acts the way they do.
pms comes once a month. some women are bitchy all the time.
2006-09-07 20:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by . 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps that's how a lot of them actually view women's behavior in general.
2006-09-07 20:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes they think that **** is cute when it's not , i was born attracted too men but I've turned my life over too god and am not a practicing homo , it's been years for me.but i never acted like that and cant stand flamers either. they are f@#$%% sick *** people
2006-09-07 21:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
cuz there saucey
2006-09-07 20:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by mike p 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋