my girlfriend moved back to america 2 months ago. she 17 im 20
i been with her for about 7 months now. we knew what when she moved bk things would become hard but we didnt care because we really care and love each other. we talk on fone everynight. it been hard but we got though this.
last night we spoke for a long time and in end i ended up telling her i loved her and i miss her so much. i do everynight. but then i told her i fill like im trapped because i just cant go around the corner and see her. she then said i understand and told me she loved me. then put the phone down. later she txt me and said sorry i just got abit upset and i love u so much and that she lucky to have a guy like me because most other guys would have moved on by now. i txt bk and said i promised u i was going no where because i love u and in time i wanna be with u. im going to see her in november and i cant wait.
can anyone who has been tho this help me make things abit easyer untill november? i love her!!!!
2006-09-07 20:48:14 · 17 answers · asked by alan h 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know how you feel. the only thing you can do is wait. keep on calling her, emailing her or whatever. thats all you can do while waiting. but the wait will be so worthwhile if you guys really love each. the moment you get back together will be magical!!!
2006-09-07 20:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance romance can work, I´ve been there done it.
A little trick I used to help with the missing is: Start a letter, do an email as if you´re writing on paper, no abbreviations (lol, 4eva etc.)
Put the date at the top and page number (just like a letter).
DO NOT sign off at the bottom. Keep it light no pressure of missing her, let her know about the little things like how you burnt the toast this morning or you saw someone with the weirdest dress sense(not me)(alright probably me). Everyday things you would talk about if she was there, Don´t be afraid to ramble on, it´s just like being there for her.
Picture her laughing at the stories.
It doesn´t need to be earth shattering lovey dovey stuff otherwise it´ll be difficult for her as well.
Do the same the next day: page two no dear...... it´s not a new letter it´s a continuation of the same one.
It´ll lift yours and her spirits trust me and when you get into it you´ll really enjoy it. Last time I did it I wrote 18 pages with paint splodges and everything, my best friend had helped me chose the colour scheme for my new flat, but had to go away for a couple of months and she felt as if she was there with me when I was decorating, include photos if you can and you will feel as if you´re not even apart.
It worked for me I hope it works for you !!!!!!
2006-09-08 04:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Peter R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u guys have access to the internet (and i dont mean 1 time a week) then mic and webcam is the best..otherwise when u have the chance send her ecards to show her that u love her and care for her.. on special occasions or even just normal days send her a letter with a small something eg. necklace or teddy
talk more on the phone and make plans for November together.. Of course what would make her extremely happy is to see u unexpectedly in her appartment :P but of course u would need some money for tickets and all..
Good luck and dont worry everything will go fine =P
2006-09-08 03:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both so lucky: and it's great that you both feel exactly the same way about each other! Now, to honour that; ensure that you keep your spirits up; and she should do the same; by carrying on with your life as duty assigns; the time will arrive quicker if you place your attention on what you usually are occupied with (your job or whatever it is that you do)
Then you can both be so proud of yourselves; and a wonderful example of true soul mates.
Good luck with your life!
2006-09-08 03:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bluebells21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there!!!!! Yes, webcams sound like a good idea. And November is only 2 months away now ... not long really when you think about it. So keep mailing and writing! And all will be well ....:-)
2006-09-08 04:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor bugger, been there, not nice.
Just try and relax and enjoy time without her, all the pining in the world isn't going to make her be there, so spend lots of time with friends ot perk you up. You'll be alright. Chin up.
2006-09-08 03:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Chris O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax,daydream about all the fun the two of you will have when you finally get together,remember the saying," good things come to those who wait"
2006-09-08 04:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by dragonflypenny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your doing a good job on your own. As long as you both remain faithfull to eachother, You shouldn't worry about anything!
2006-09-08 03:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by sheltz32tt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
web cams are a cyber miracle for long distance relationships x
2006-09-08 13:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do is to married her.
the other thing is to keep busy and save some money. never know what could happen
2006-09-08 04:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋