Will I ever find peace in my life and in me? Everything is in such a termiol, just can't think straight, can s

Question

can someone help? loss of family , unsure of life.

Answer 1

you will not find peace in your life or in yourself, you will find peace in God and love. God=love. If you want someone to talk to just email me and we can start having a decent conversation =) [e-mail] or [e-mail]. It's fine if you are not religious, i am not what you would stereotype as a fanatic, you just asked a question and i gave you the best answer i could think of without knowing you at all.
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what is with all this good luck thing, you don't need luck and luck will not help in a situation like this, nor will it solve itself, you just kinda take a step and say that this is what you want and you are going to get it. Blah with all this live for yourself, you'll only keep feeling empty, but i'll stop, just email me if you wanna talk :). im going to bed right now though i have class early tommorow.

Answer 2

I don't know what has caused the turmoil in your life and what your health is like but speak to your GP or practice nurse and check that you don't have depression, starting menopause etc...as this can underlie you feelings of loss of control hence the feeling of loss of peace.
If it is because of outside stuff like losing family etc..still pursue some support...and find some peace in you by treating yourself with respect and look for the good in yourself now matter how hard it may seem, as we are all good at something, our jewel that part of you that shines and has nothing to do with anyone else.
to think straight just stop, take time out to walk outside and just look at the world around you and remember that we are such a small part of it all that others problems are not ours and you have a responsibility to look after you first.
I wish I could be more specific but what I'm trying to get at is honey, if the turmoil is someone else's doing, let it go and do what you need and don't take on anyone else's problems if it is causing you inner grief.....that is no help to any situation....good luck

Answer 3

Losing family can send you reeling, it's true, and I can imagine that your world seems to be falling apart right now. But it will get better ... it might not seem possible now, but it will.

Other people have suggested, in various forms, that you follow a path of faith - to my mind, whatever path you follow is unimportant as long as it brings you comfort and you are not hurting anyone else, so perhaps you could find a spiritual advisor, like a priest or someone. Follow your own faith.

Certainly bereavement support should help you, and if it's available in your area, it might be an idea to look into it.

It might also be good to know that even though you're feeling incredibly alone right now, you aren't. There are many out there who have lost loved ones, and are at various stages of the grieving process. They will be sympathetic to what you're going through.

Hope this helps.

Answer 4

I'm not religious in the sense that I believe one set of stories over another (eg Bible vs Koran), but it helps me the believe in a higher power - call it God if you like - that makes sure everything happens for a reason that you may be able to grasp one day. While going through difficult times this is hard to understand or believe (I've been there, too) but every experience you have is an opportunity to learn, to grow, to become stronger. Something out there will make sure you won't get more than you can handle and that you'll be alright in the end.

Answer 5

okay, ignore all the other crap everyone else is telling you. Let me put it to you simply. Trying to find peace or happiness through someone else or something else (like God) will never work. You will just be disappointed (believe me I've tried). Through years of medication, counseling, and lifestyle changes I have finally realized that peace can only come from within yourself. Peace and happiness is really more of a conscious effort on your part than anything else. The quicker you come to accept the fact that life is full of termoil and there isn;t alot you can do about it, the more happier you'll be. It's all what you make of it.

Answer 6

okay we have all been there and judging from other responses they ahve ways to cope - peace comes from you so relax is the first step and write what you want and keep it with you and that is your goal then see what you can do to achieve this - yoga helps with stress i read the art of happiness by dalai lama it was so funny and some bits i didnt get but it helped me get thigs into perspective - i would say though at the mo your mind is not ready to sit and read as you seem quite stressed - take time for you and breathe and write and speak to people - get a clamness first and you will be fine - life is a array of ups and downs you will do well when you look back and see how strong you were at the downs

Answer 7

because human nature is like that. i'm a Buddhist. i believe that I exist no more desirable than an earthworm, so why do i imagine that I advise more desirable than him? I shouldn't, and yet human beings are conceited. we assume of that our intelligence makes us exist in a extra significant realm or some thing. That in basic terms isn't real. The universe is a gentle stability. cohesion is everywhere. there is soreness because human beings will be human beings. Greed is an emotion and personality trait. in case you so believe, Karma is a reliable pressure that we may be able to no longer comprehend, even though it makes the international the way it truly is. With suffering led to by technique of human conceitedness. when I die, i will end to exist in area and time, my techniques will be misplaced in Nirvana, as will the earthworm. So I stay this existence totally with a heart finished of love.

Answer 8

I am sorry to hear that you are going through such a tough time. Inner peace is something that is widely sought but rarely truly found. True Peace for one is found in doing what God wants for you to do. He has a plan for each of us, we need to find out what that is and then act in accordance with it. Pray, Almighty God hears the prayers of those who truly seek to find true peace. Live you life in a way that is condusive to a peaceful outcome.

God cares for you....If you have a Bible read 1st Peter Chapter 5 verses 6 and 7

Answer 9

What you need to decide is who you want to be. Consider the aspects of the person you see as having peace, stability, etc. Now consider how you would manage this. Form a plan. Make it happen. Re- invent yourself if from scratch if necessary. In short, be true to your self image.

Failing that, go and have a wild weekend. You might not find inner calm, but what the hell.

Answer 10

I can assure you without a doubt, that one day your grief will subside and you will be OK. For now, allow yourself to go through the various stages of grief, read lots of inspiring books to help you through this period, listen to some upbeat music like Bob Marley's "Don't worry about a thing, everything is going to be alright", and talk to your friends or a counselor. This is also a good time to express yourself artistically whether it is through painting, writing, creating music. Pain is a great inspiration for the expression of art, and the creative process is a great healer for pain. Just be patient with yourself and pamper yourself at this time.