Ive been broke up with my boyfriend for a year now.. The attachment is pretty deep.. But im too scared to give it a second time.. and he seems not sure eventhough he pursues me but he comes and he goes.. So im running away avoiding him at all cost.. but im also scared i might be losing something very important..
Please don't be rude.. Im seriously heartbroken and needing your opinions... thank you very much for anything that you can say..
2006-09-07 19:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your situation is not that of a total breakup. Both of you still care for each-other, still you both are shy to come out in the open and accept the love and care you both have for each other. (I guess there are some practical difficulties in your being together.)
Re-evaluate the situation, take a short break, decide whether you can live without each-other. Your own heart is your best guide.
2006-09-07 20:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would have to ask have you honestly tried to date other people? Sometimes dating other people will give you the chance to try new things and give you a better understanding in yourself and what you need from a relationship.Maybe if you are both going back to eachother because you feel comfortable and are afraid to try to move on.Chancing are if you and him are both having mixed feelings about it it might be the wrong thing. So think about why you broke up in the first place and decide if the reasons still take place.Its hard to let go of something that ment so much but may be wrong for you. Best of luck and be happy :)
2006-09-08 03:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cin T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look at what broke your relationship up and find out if you both still love each other,there is nothing wrong with giving him a second chance
2006-09-08 03:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by pope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, getting back together always brings back the same problems. Just think about what you two use to fight about and then decide if its worth it.. Remember the good and the bad.. Which one out weighs each other?
2006-09-08 03:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is that never run away from your problems it just makes it worse!
if you really love him you know what to do.
just listen to your heart and if u really luv him going with him will feel right but if it feels wrong say to him lets just be good mates and maybe later we can try again!
i hope i helped u can add me if u want im har_jus@yahoo.com
2006-09-08 03:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by har_jus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the Hindi film "Koar Kagaj"
2006-09-08 02:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think wat ur in isnt a total breakup
u got felings 4 each other but ur scared 2 get hurt so ur avoiding him,its normal
so talk 2 him nd stop avoiding him so much so he'll understand that u still hav it in 4 him
then after a little time............TADA!
good luck sweety*
2006-09-08 03:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋