Almost everyone has heard the phrase nice guys finish last. I've noticed this to be particulary true. Everytime I see a hot girl 9 times out of 10 she will be with a total asshole (undeniably). Is there some chemical in the brain that makes girls more attracted to bad guys. Probably a lot of them don't even realize it.
2006-09-07 19:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by true_skillzz 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Okay...I am female. I have gone out with plenty of good and bad guys. The bad guys are more aggressive and want to do things that get the adrenaline flowing. Good guys sometimes can be a little boring as well as clingy.
Bad guys are sure of themselves while good guys seem to be a little insecure. I appreciate an educated good guy who likes to go out and have fun but most good guys that I have met like to stay in.
It is also human nature to want what you can't get. Bad guys treat women like crap but women come back for more. "I know that I can change him. He really likes me so he is pushing me away." This is how many women allow bad behavior. Sometimes it is also through fear. Some women would rather be in a bad relationship than be alone.
Good thing that we also continue to learn. As I get older I want more stability in my life and that is what a good guy has to offer.
2006-09-07 20:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by emma5280 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the hot girl that has been around all the bad guys in the end you will finish last. You will have that hot girl but only after she has been used and abused. What about the phrase"All the good guys are taken. The hot girls probably had a father that was a bad guy. Thus they look for that in a man. They do not know better. They think how they treat them and abuse them is normal. Since there father was like that. They girl or guy can be the most attractive creature on this earth. But if they have a bad attitude and don't know how to love. All of that hotness will not matter and will forever be unsatisfied.
2006-09-07 20:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by vampdevil@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're only looking at 'hot girls,' then why should the rest of us think that *you're* nice? Just imagine how horrible it feels to be with someone who's always looking at 'prettier' women? Or even worse, a boyfriend who thinks that he can't do any better?
There's another side to it as well. Most of us make up stories about people based on their appearances. Very few of these stories are actually true, but they still affect us, how we see ourselves and how we act. This is especially true for the people on either end of the 'attractiveness' spectrum. Sometimes the ways individuals cope with this attention isn't healthy, especially since most people aren't really aware of the whole dynamic.
Bottom line though, the 'hot' girls are living out what's expected of them, just like the 'bad' boys are. Meanwhile, there are plenty of average women looking to meet someone who will realize how special they really are.
2006-09-08 03:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they are getting attention being showed off to his friends. Their all nice at first that is how they catch you then when they know that the girl is in love with him then they treat them bad because they know they won't leave because they love him so much. Been there did it and got the shirt, found a good guy been together 6 years and happily married.
2006-09-07 19:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been attracted to wild and bad boys, they are exciting and dangerous. You get alot of attention with them. My first husband is one of these guys, He has been to the penitentary and he ain't nothing nice. I divorced him and married a good guy, boring but secure. He don't stand up for things and he doesn't fight about anything. It was hard to get used to, but my advice for girls is stay away from these bad boy types.
2006-09-08 02:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you figure out why women go for the bad guys let me know. I'm a nice guy, and I always finish last. It's not fair I tell ya. :-(
2006-09-07 19:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
girls feels Secure with bad guys. thats da only reason behind this mentality of girls.
2006-09-07 19:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Leo H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because, even though i have a love 'em and leave 'em attitude, and i let them pick up the check and i let them allow me to drive their car and they know i am going to bang their girl friends, they like the danger.....and dangermouse is in the house!
2006-09-07 19:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by eaglemyrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big mouth promise more action. But they are not aware of the follow up-disappointment,
2006-09-07 19:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-because most girls can not target the reality of what is needed for themselves
2006-09-07 20:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋