I dont usual enjoy my sex life with my husband because i dont come to orgasm. I prentend to be on heat and enjoying it then later i will finger myself to come to orgasm. Over one year i dont come naturally i have to finger myself. But he enjoys his sex life and come to orgasm whenever we have sex. What should i do?
2006-09-07 19:43:20 · 5 answers · asked by minou 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It is normal not to have an orgasm when having sex but your husband should be trying to please you as well and just not himself.Talk to him about how you feel and ask him but in a loving way as this may hurt his ego.
Foreplay for a woman is very important and this helps out a lot but should not just be 5 minutes before sex happens more like 12hrs before
Stress could also be a contributing factor but please talk to your husband first .Tell him that you love him very much but lately it has become hard for you to enjoy sex.You can tell him the rest
2006-09-09 01:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by JUSEve 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is for the married couple to enjoy, if you don't then must talk to your husband because he should hold 80% responsibility, but you shouldn't pretend n acted in such a way that your are satisfied ! read from relevant books, magazine, movies, website etc together with him to enhance the knowledge of good sex life ! only when both of you know the real problem of you not getting an orgasm then only a solution can be figure out ! n it required the efforts from both side ! of course he has been enjoying coz men are much more easy to get an orgasm due to physical differences ! n if he love n care for you, he must find a way to share the joys of good sex ! in fact most men feel ed a great sense of satisfaction n achievement being able to satisfied their partner ! seeing my wife getting an orgasm from my effort make me extremely happy n feel great !
2006-09-09 11:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by ng 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him straight that he is not making you ***.As a man i love to make my partner orgasm and we talk about what we like and don't pretend we are getting off. Whats the point in faking it?
2006-09-09 12:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by badbullock 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him to finger your clit while he is doing it. I cannot come through penetration alone, so we do that, or he goes down on me afterwards
2006-09-10 16:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Seph7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi, i dont share your problem but try http://www.partnertherapy.com/node/40 for advice. Hope it helps, good luck
2006-09-08 08:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by brownsuga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋