My husband wants me to masturbate for him ,but on cam, so his friends can see........should I comply? Or should I say not a chance in hell? We want to spice things up......is this the spice we long for???
2006-09-07 19:17:05 · 23 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me rephrase that......he wantshis"online friends" to watch.....pplthat he has never met in "real"life.....
2006-09-07 19:24:17 · update #1
**** that. If it's something that you're 'into' then I guess go for it. I think it'd be a mistake even if you wanted to though. It doesn't sound like you're thrilled about it so just say "No.". Tell him you're not comfortable doing things for your friends. Infact.. were I you I wouldn't say that near as polite as I just did.. but you do it your own way.
2006-09-07 19:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well its depend on u if u like u can go after that but b sure that tis very bad act u dont know anyone neither ur hubby just cam friends and viewing the most secret parts of urs in such a way thas not good and secondly some scam may b there,
when u go for masturbating on cam before them tis possible all or few of them do record ur act and then make it online on net or can take ur pics in that way so u can imagine that how degrading it could b for u just try to ask ur husband in soft gentle way to stop thinking like this
2006-09-07 20:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by willy nilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! There are other ways to spice things up and this one should be off limits to his friends. Not only is he disrespecting u, he's disrespecting your marriage by sharing the most intimate part of u to his friends. If he is wanting other people to see u in the act, why do it in front of people he knows? Sounds like he's trying to show off for them but come on, don't u think this is a bit disrespectful for u? Besides, if u are here asking this, then u must not feel at all too good about it, so...tell him it's not a good idea and suggest u try other, less degrading method.
2006-09-07 19:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, don't do this to yourself.
Listen to yourself - you have doubts about this. This is making you uncomfortable, therefore it does not sit right with your values.
If you go forward, these pictures will live forever. Imagine what his friends will think of you the next time they see you - is that how you want to be thought of?
I have to ask: what kind of husband who wants to show off the most intimate side of his wife, and (actually or potentially) the mother of his children?
There are other ways to spice things up -- just between the two of you. You can suggest ideas, or seek couples therapy if you need more help. You don't need to model for his friends.
If he persists, and insists on this idea, then I think you need to ask a lot more questions about his motives. He may have a serious issue that needs to be discussed and dealt with.
I wish you luck.
2006-09-07 19:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tom-SJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is certainly not a good practice. Look even when you are with him and he asking for such an act is shamefull though okay sometime for fun.But asking on cam to show his frenz untollerable and unpardenable. You dont make this as an issue at this stage. Take it easy and ignore him by making him involved with you. I am sure he would forget his dirty ask while enjoying you.
2006-09-07 19:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am tempted to say yes go ahead and give me the web address so I can watch...... man what a turn on, but the other side of me says no do not do it. It will surely come back to haunt you. You never know some fight down the road and up in your face this comes out. If after all that you still feel like getting on cam instead of letting his friends see it you can just email it to me.
2006-09-07 19:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dalton125 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No chance in hell!! Figure out another way to spice things up.
2006-09-07 19:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not what he wants you to do for him but more if you have an urge to do something like that. Maybe you have a fantasy of having folks watch you and maybe you don't. I think only you can answer that yourself. If you don't feel comfortable with it then suggest something else. But something tells me that you will do it. So want to add me as a friend then?
2006-09-07 19:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt do anything if the tape would be for anyone else besides my mate.
I dont think that is such a good idea.
image guys drink beer, making jokes and watching the video. there is a high probability it may happen.
unless of course you dont mind. but I would
2006-09-07 19:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by whatwouldyodado2006 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say do it but dont show your face im sure that will spice it up then get him on cam to materbate for your mates then all meet up and have wild sex
2006-09-07 19:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by stephen d 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋