is it permissible to approve a 35 yr old man loving a 22 yr girl and that too extra marital relationship? who is going to suffer most in this condition?
2006-09-07 19:12:37 · 31 answers · asked by suresh b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well the fact that one is married the answered would be NO... being married makes you automatically unavailable .. there is no relationship until the marriage is resolved. Who is going to suffer the most the poor spouse that is dealing with a cheater and even more the children if any are involved. Lets not forget about the other family members as well.
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2006-09-07 19:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the feeling that is in question here but the extra marital relationship. if the 22 year old girl starts demanding for more time spent with each other like birthdays, christmas, valentines day, etc. then the married man starts getting the pressure of the situation and will then have to make a choice.
2006-09-07 19:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by marisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, first of all remember that love and sex are two different things entirely. Love in true sense has no barrier and it is a pious feeling. However, extra-marital relationship is known as adultery and considered an immoral act in the society. It will lead to spoiling your marriage and peace of mind besides many other related problems like threat to your life from the other side, legal implications, contacting STD, psychological problems due to sense of guilt etc.
2006-09-07 19:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by believer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think age doesnt matter. Women at 22 are quite mature. I am sure if they love each other they should be no problem. My parents have been together for 23 years and they had 13 years difference. They said it was the best thing that happend to them. And when they met they were both married with children. He was 41 and she was 27. And look it worked fine and especially for me.
2006-09-07 19:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anna D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not too terrible! :) It's ok to be in love with someone who is older. I think that the only one who will suffer is the one who lets the age bother them...22 and 35 are both old enough to consent into a relationship...even marriage.
Besides...that age gap isn't that big! :)
2006-09-07 19:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in india it's not and in case of extra marital relationship the wife will suffer the most at the moment and after some years childerens will suffer the most because there will be tension building up at home which will effect the childerens and there future will also. they will learn unknowingly such things that will effect there mature life in many ways and for ever
2006-09-07 20:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who give permits for what is to be done.
Love permits- ?
You can fall in love with any girl of any age,
but not a minor for sex.
If the girl reciprocates, who has problems?
As long you do not rape her, or cheat her
or hurt her emotions, I think, it is not unfair.
If she and you get pleasure out of love, we,
the hyprocates of the society, have to keep
our mouth shut. Please ensure safe sex,
for the sake of both of you.
There are several instances, when a man of 65 years
have married or had ex-tra marital affairswith
a girl of 21 years.
Professor Batuknath of Patna University, aged 55 years
developed intimate sexual relationship of love with his
female student (Juli) of 21 years and admitted the affair
in front of TV camera. No one could do a hood to him,
although he had a groun-up son, studying in Australia.
No criminal proceedings could be initiated even.
2006-09-07 19:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by pianist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 19.. and when i was 18 i fell in love with a 37 year old... the relationship lasted for a few months... he say that i cheated.... but i didn't. i was 2 in love... we were on two different levels.. and we barely got alone... the most enjoyable thing we did was write poetry and conversed about all kinds of things... but i wouldn't trade the experience.... i love him still and if i could, i would get him back.. my parents didn't approve... but you have to make your own decisions... if it's real.. then go for it.
2006-09-07 19:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind. It does not know limits or law and can not be stopped. Man is in most cases not blind and has created limits and laws by which to follow. It is a question of personal values and morals. What is good for one may be viewed as wrong to others. Listen to your gut.
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2016-10-14 10:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋