we got into a fight and he ended up leaving he is at his moms. should I just let him cool off or should I call him?
2006-09-07 19:04:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anna L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You had a fight. Fight pissed off you husband. Well He ran to his mothers. To Bad wish he hadn't. Now who is correct in this fight? If you stand you ground and maybe call him and tell him come home but don't say your sorry if your correct. I you are wrong then apologize to him.
If both are correct or wrong the you both should say sorry for letting it get out of control.
My Guess he feels he is punishing you by running to his mom home. He needs to grow up and come home. I never went to parent house if I lost my temper. I either went for a long walk or long drive and then came home. I never ever felt any home was other than where my wife was no matter how upset I might have gotten.
Stick it out. He will be home some time I am sure. Like a little puppy that thinks he won.
2006-09-07 19:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some questions come to thought...There has to be more to this..someone does not just walk out on one fight! I am sure there is a lot more for you to think about regarding him walking out...what is and has been going on between you? How long have you been together? Drugs? Alcohol? Kids? You need to give more details but I do believe that you need to let him cool off.
2006-09-08 02:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U didn't give enough info. Anyway, u should cool down and think
why do u both get into a fight. What problem/s trigger the fight.
In order to maintain a good relationship, a coulpe must be truthful. both must be able to talk on any topic, solve any problems together.etc. After u had cool down & know e reason to ur fight call him & tell him u both need to have a heart to heart talk to resolve any problems u both or either one is facing.
2006-09-08 02:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some time to cool off and think things over. Time has a way of making the worst of situations seem less critical.
2006-09-08 02:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO sorry girl dont bother him anymore my ex did the same thing got into an argument he left with mommy and daddy havent seen him since he said he would call if he changed his feelings for me well i moved on and so has he im sorry but get over it find better i know i did
2006-09-08 03:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he will be back, just let him cool off.
2006-09-08 02:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st let both of u cool down. After cooling down...think who fault is it yr? If it is yr then u should make the 1st move..if nt yr fault then i suggest u nt to do anything let him hv somemore cooling time once he figure out tat he is in fault he will come back to u....then u both should hv a good talk.
2006-09-08 02:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who started the fight?if it's you,then you should call him.just don't go to his mom's house or his mom would intervene..call him and tell him you're sorry..it's worth taking risk than just waiting for long..good luck..
2006-09-08 02:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by ~cara~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fully agree with Maurine's response , pl do go ahead without wasting more time for your own happy life's sake .
2006-09-08 02:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a fight and he went to his mom's RED FLAG
2006-09-08 09:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋