My wife thinks just because she is pregnant, it gets her out of house cleaning, cooking and bill paying?

Question

Are there any other wives that are this lazy?

She is 8 months along.

Answer 1

I assumed from the obvious baiting tone in this question that it wasn't real... that and it's absolutely inconceivable that you could have a wife. One look at the other questions you've posted shows that you're just a pathetic troll trying to waste people's time.

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Answer 2

Some women do take advantage of that situation...but some women are totally opposite. My first pregnancy, I felt wonderful!!! I was only sick a couple of times but I felt great. I, for some reason, got obsessed with cleanliness. Even baseboards had to be clean. I was very organized & orderly. My canned goods were aligned & perfect for crying out loud!! I couldn't help it though.
My 2nd pregnancy was different. I was sick ALL the time, I never felt good, & I was tired ALOT! I couldn't care less about cleaning unless it was a necessity. And who cared about organizing something! Much less doing much of anything period!
My 3rd pregnancy was in-between those two. I felt pretty good for the most part & cleaned regularly & kept things in pretty good order.
Sometimes pregnant women just really don't feel good! Keep in mind, our hormones are raging & going in 100 different directions.Try to be a little more patient with her...it's only temporary anyway. Believe me when the baby gets here...lazy days are over!

Answer 3

Is your wife just pregnant?.. How many months already?.. Pregnant woman are not suitable to do heavy works for the 1st three months coz the baby is not yet stable, after 3 months also have to becareful due to miscarriage will happen also.. I think cooking and paying bills is not a matter, but hse cleaning maybe not good for her to climb up and down and carry heavy things.. A pregnant woman is easily feel tired all the times.. Take care..

Answer 4

I could give you a handful of reasons for why she would not want to do house cleaning: morning sickness, belly too big, fumes from cleaners.

But the biggest thing is that maybe she wants to feel pampered by her husband as she destroys her pre-pregnancy body to give you a wonderful baby. You could be the husband wives dream about and give in just a little for the next few months.

Answer 5

In your other "questions" you called her lazy when she was doing these things - make up your mind. And, just how many bills can she pay, since you claim to be the breadwinner with income from an unemployment check? Your "facts" don't compute!

Also, if you're unemployed, you have plenty of time to clean, cook and pay bills. Who is the lazy one?

Answer 6

i had a friend who had the same attitude. i visited her for 16 days, supposed to be a holiday, and she made me her servant the entire time. i actually intended to help out anyway, but wasn't too happy about her whining every day *i can't do (insert any kind of normal activity here) because i'm pregnant*. i travelled 2500 miles to see her. i only stayed because i hadn't seen her for awhile and never met her new husband before and i honestly thought each day might get better.

for goodness sake, a pregnant woman is pregnant, not an invalid. unless she's having complications, pregnancy should not be an excuse to be lazy or take advantage of other people. i have two children myself and never got any breaks from any of my responsibilities while i was pregnant. i even had complications with my first one but we all survived.

Answer 7

Does your wife have any medical complications with her pregnancy? If she does, I would say that it warrants the need for her to have increased bed rest and for her to stay off of her feet.

Otherwise as a mother of five, I would say HELL NO not in this house....when I was pregnant I always had to clean the house, take care of the kids, do the laundry, the cooking and take care of the bills....The fact that I was pregnant was irrelevant....

You need to assess how your wife is feeling physically and emotionally and see if she needs help with household duties but she is not entitled to stop doing her fair share simply for the fact she is pregnant.....

Answer 8

I worked a full time job (until my water broke) in a nursing home as a nurse assistant. I came home every evening and shared the household work with my husband. We split the bills and I even mowed the lawn and rode a bicycle.
Hate to say it, but I think your wife is being a bit pathetic.

Answer 9

Gah'. I think that if you'd have asked this with a different tone, you'd have gotten different answers. I get the feeling you're going to get a lot of people disagreeing with you. I don't necessarily agree with them. Would need to know more about the circumstances. Particularly how far along she is and how 'much' of the house work you're wanting her to do? If it's 'all' the house work then I think you're asking way too much. Even if she's not that far along.

Answer 10

If she was doing the house work before - give her the break and try to understand her because she is pregnant . But why she doesn't pay the bills that's strange.