2006-09-07 18:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you been faking when it's oral? If u know where the spot is..SHOW HIM!If I were you, I wouldn't tell him that u have been faking, u should just act like u have new ideas, if u have been together for years, new can be fun,if he's down there, and just rummaging around...guide him....gee-sh, faking for years...two fingers,start moving!
2006-09-08 06:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by melanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not gonna like hearing that. This is an experience thing and you have to help build the experience by helping with directions. I think each woman is like a musical instrument and in order to play what sounds best a person has to take their time. People may tell you some women can not ***. Don't believe them a guy who knows what he is doing can get you over the hump, but if your bf is willing to take his time and learn as he goes there is about the same chance he will be successful as there is he can learn to play the piano, and that is if he really wants to. You can practice on yourself and then feed him what you learned.
2006-09-07 18:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet would be to inform him of the faking and then ask him to help you find away for you to over come the problem. Orgasim is having the ability to let go and generally is a trust issue, do you trust him, do you trust yoursel fot let go and experiance the mind blowing feeling you could have? Honesty and exploration. Be honest with him and then explore with him to see what turns you on and what makes you feel right. The right touch and a bit of time combined with trust and caring is all you need to reach the ultimate platou of pleasure.
2006-09-07 18:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by orophingaladhrim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's no longer gonna like listening to that. it is an adventure element and you will desire to help build the adventure by assisting with instructions. i think of each and each woman is nearly a musical device and as a fashion to play what sounds perfect a guy or woman has to take their time. human beings would inform you some women folk can no longer ***. don't think them a guy who is familiar with what he's doing can get you over the hump, yet while your bf is keen to take his time and learn as he is going there is relating to a similar danger he would be triumphant as there is he can learn how to play the piano, and that's if he particularly needs to. you are able to prepare on your self and then feed him what you found out.
2016-12-12 04:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just like that . Start out by saying sometimes you fake them. I wouldn't say never because that will make him feel like a failure. Make sure to say that your oher b/f's in the past it was likewise the same, so he doesn't feel bad.
For you to have an orgasm why don't u try talking to him? Telling him what you like an dislike?
2006-09-07 18:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him. Do you not want to orgaism during sex. If you fake it he will never know. If you tell him he can learn, or atleast do oral to get you off. Honesty is the best policy for a relationship.
2006-09-07 18:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get comfortable with your own body first! let your fingers do the walking! and it will make for better sex! you will start to know what feels good and what will make u come! communication during sex is key!
best of luck!
2006-09-07 18:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by carpenter2929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not fair ....why did you keep it away from your b/f for so many years.....how is he going to know if you are faking .....when your poor b/f thinks he is the best ...i bet that's what you been telling him...........yes you should tell him nicely....but he is going to get really upset....good luck
2006-09-07 18:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try relaxing. stimulate ur clit if he wont, then itll happen. try it outside. risky is hot. just dont get caught. dont tell him or ull break his penis alltogether
2006-09-07 18:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by chlo_bo69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have to tell him..guess he's not doing his job...just get a new boyfriend...one that you don't have to be "fake" with...good uck...
2006-09-07 18:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋