I just broke up with my FIANCE because i found out again that she was cheating on me...
Well, this is the thing we bben together for the last 2 and a half years, we just moved in again like a month ago, and then i found out that she was banging some other dude...
The same thing happened like a year ago but the difference is that i caught her the very day of my birthday....SUCKS RIGHT!Any way i took her back and i thought that it was going to work....and again last Tuesday i busted again, the girl was talking about getting marry not just to me, to her family and friends, we just went and spend some money on furniture ad little things like that....I can believe it....Beein honest to you guys i feel like a NATURAL FUC@!NG IDIOT!!!
2006-09-07 18:14:57 · 28 answers · asked by German R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once a cheater always a cheater. Let's say you get married....there no trust here. What are you gonna think when you call her cell phone and she doesn't awswer? What are you gonna think when she is late coming home from work? What are you gonna think when she wants a 'girls' night out? What are you gonna think when she gets a cell phone call and leaves the room to talk?
Your not an idiot.....lessons learned....move on. Idiots are those who keep making the same mistake and never learn.
Good luck.
2006-09-07 18:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanted to believe that you could make things work....that if you gave her enough love she would never betray you again....It isn't your fault that you fell in love with this girl. She is the idiot because it sounds like you have invested alot of heart and soul into this relationship and she doesn't have the capacity to be faithful to you....My advice would be to never trust her again regardless of what she says or does and to move on to someone more worthwhile of your love and devotion......You are not an idiot....you are just a nice guy who got screwed over....I am sorry.....I hope your future holds better and brighter prospects....
2006-09-08 02:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang bebe it's biatches like that, that ruin good guys so when good girls like me get a hold of you ya'll dogs us out that is so messed up but I'm starting to believe that is just the way it is it seems like when your good and you do right the only thing that comes you way is str8 bs and when you mean and nasty and don't care you get someone good and you end up messing them all up and your not an idiot love makes you do some crazy stuff but these stupid people that screw us over it is good in a way b/c they are teaching us a lesson if we get screwed over time and time agian then guess what when we get a really nice person we will be able to tell the difference you know what I mean so it's a catch 22 situation my advice for you is one never move into a place with a person if one day that person leaves and you can't swing all the bills yourself that is the first mistake ,second always save you some money to the side in case something bad happens you always have plan B and your not stuck looking crazy with no money and no where to go,third have the bills split like you have the water in your name and she have the electric in hers that way if she did up and leave you she will have something in her name and your not just screwed left and right,and fourth if someone is cheating on you it may be hard but leave them once a cheat always a cheat she is no good and think about it this way what kind of relationship do you really have if you don't trust a person when you go out aren't you always wondering what she is doing and if she is screwing your brother or all the guys in your apartment complex that is no way to live you will have a heart attack or stroke worrying about this biatch that doesn't give two flips about you so ask yourself is it worth it when it comes down to your health and some girl who doesn't care about you what is it going to be you or her and plus not to mention she could bring you something (STD) and then what is she really worth itching for the rest of your life dump that broad and move on and if you want hit me up anytime I'm always willing to listen and give advice sorry I wrote so much I get carried away but I hope this can help you out (Good Luck)
2006-09-08 01:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, at least you didn't marry her. Now you are just free to go. If you were married to that bltch you would be goin through an ugly nasty divorce.
Leave that ho, there are better women out there that don't cheat. Not very many but there are 1 or 2.
2006-09-08 01:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey--don't beat yourself up about this. There's a song that goes,
"everybody plays the fool sometimes....there's no exception to the rule...." by Smokey Robinson I think. Your fiance is a skank.
Better that you found out now so that you can move on and get her out of your life once and for all. Don't take it to heart. What goes around comes around.
2006-09-08 01:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not an idiot...that said, take her back again, and you're DEFINITLY an idiot! But really, I'm sorry, guy...she didn't deserve you, anyway. Be glad you found out before you were married, right? Don't let it screw you up. Not all women are like this, and you can do better.
2006-09-08 02:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by wendy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would be an idiot if you married her, just be thankful that you realised now that she isn't the one for you. Catching her on your bday does suck, but I am sure she doesn't know wat she lost, and honestly because you took her back the first time she is going to think you will take her back again (may be the reason she has been cheating because she knows you are a sucker and you took her back once, who is to say you won't do it again!)
Don't be fooled by her games...move on find someone who is faithful to you......and well..guess what..she isn't..and hasn't...and probably would never be!
2006-09-08 01:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not an idiot just in love..Unfortunately she has a problem being faithful to you.And if she's not gonna be faithful its time to end the relationship. History has a tendency to repeat itself unless the lessons of the past are learned.
Wish her well and find someone who will love you for who you are with all their heart...
2006-09-08 01:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, u r not an idiot. U gotta bad girlfriend.
But u dont be an idiot by being with her.
Dump that silly and foolish girl.
Shez just playing around n having fun.
Love made u blind...
Now wake up...
2006-09-08 01:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by ashlesha19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't ever think her behavior reflects on you as a person, was because you were lacking in some area, or was because of something you did or didn't do. And don't expect to ever get her to explain her reasoning, because likely she simply can't. Just forget it, and move on. Forgive her because you know you should've left her long ago, and forgive yourself because no one is perfect, or can see into another's heart, or can predict the future.
2006-09-08 01:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋