OMG, I am so horney. I'm 8 months along and I so need SEX! Is it safe to do it this far along? I'm having sex dreams EVERY night. I feel like... well you don't need to know. My husband is in the ARMY and he's not due home 9 MORE MONTHS!! I need to know what to do. There's no way that I will cheat on my husband...just FYI. This is my first kid. is this normal?
BTW, I'm 19 about to be 20. My husband is 21 and we've been married for 3 years in November. I know, I know I'm too young, but We've been together since jr. High. I've known him...forever. and I love him with all of my heart.
2006-09-07 18:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by ~Forever~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
WOW!!! you and I sound a lot alike. Are you sure that you're not stalking me? LOL!! I just had our baby and I remember the long nights away from your husband. Mine is in Iraq and won't be home for 4 months. I don't think that i could deal with 9 more months without him. I hope you get through i would offer a suggestion, but every else has me covered. Congratulations and hope that you, your husband, and your little unborn child get through everything OK. Best of luck to ya and God bless.
2006-09-09 15:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just masturbate, perhaps watch some porn, and fullfill your wildest dreams. I get really horny too, girl. TRUST ME!! You can't tell me you haven't masturbated in the last 8 months...so why not continue to do it? Go get yourself a really big vibrating dildo. By the way, make sure its big, or instead of doing the job, it will only compliment whatever action you do. If you are already very good at giving yourself orgasms then just do what you do best, and dont' worry about the dildo if you dont' want to. Maybe even focus on the clit. Rub a blanket between your legs. Just don't be afraid to be intimate with yourself. Get completely naked, and let yourself feel sexy. Even a woman who is pregnant can still feel sexy. While you masturbate, think about the fact that your husband is probably on the other side of the world masturbating to thinking of you. I know it really turns me on when I know my boyfriend is thinking about me. Also, watch yourself when you masturbate, because as you watch yourself, you will realize how sexy you are doing it, turning yourself on even more. Good Luck!!
2006-09-08 01:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol that's so funny. I use to get crazy when I was pregnant I just HAD to have sex all the time. That sucks that your hubby is away don't cheat. Go buy yourself some fun toys. I like bullets the best. Orgasm is good for pregnant women. I know this sounds weird but when my husband was away from town for long periods of time we would talk on the phone and....anyways it was kinda fun and that practice communicating even improved our sex life when he got home. Also I know some women with hubbies in the military who have fun with their hubbies using a web cam.
2006-09-08 01:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to him on the phone? My brother is in Iraq and has a pregnant wife at home, and they talk pretty frequently. She has mentioned the same thing. He just isn't here. She said that if you talk, sometimes it's easier to imagine them home. It's as though he were. She also has those toys, says they satiate her...but she misses her husband. Don't ever cheat. Just know that he will be home soon, and that baby will have his/her Daddy there!
2006-09-08 01:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, it's perfectly normal. Self love is the best love. And you can always go out and buy a B.O.B. A Battery Operated Boyfriend. Don't be ashamed, you're not the only pregnant woman in the world that has gone through this. You'll be ok. ;)
2006-09-08 01:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very Honest..in accepting this thing.
Most ladies face this problem...as there is "increased BLOOD SUPPLY and CONGESTION" in pelvic area in advanced Pregnancy... congestion also occurs during menses..that time also some may have high urge for sex!
So as Cause is related to NORMAL PHYSIOLOGY like evry body...i think you should cool down urself with meditation(if possible)..reading books/watching Movies in SUBJECT F UR INTEREST other than sex!
AND Know the "Disadvantages of having sex" at 8 months...
Due to vigourous activity(wid sex),pressure on abdomen,orgasm?, and INFECTION CAUSED BY PENETRATION OF penis can LAND UP YOU IN ""PRETERM LABOUR".....This is possibility need not happen in everybody
But with your genuine problem..you can have sex with following Limitations....
1) Condome to be used to avoid infection to baby and preterm labour
2) Side by side or women on top positions are safer so that no pressure on abdomen and NO extra force for thrusting
As you have true Love better keep talking with him about baby, plannings for baby...like this so many pleasurable things...so that might remove "TRANSIENT" craving for sex.
2006-09-08 01:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by synMnpkn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop watching and listening to music and/or TV shows that have sex in it. Maybe you should buy a vibrator. I mean considering the fact that he not coming back for a while and you about to bust into a million pieces.
2006-09-08 01:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by LayLay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex up until 41 weeks with my last baby. Pleasure yourself, thats all the advice anyone on here will probably be able to give u.
2006-09-08 01:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady just go buy a non vibrating dildo and have fun!
it wont hurt nothin!
AND maybe you'd shut up.
next time tell your hubby that he aint leaving you for that long again. and refuse to let him reinlist!
And yes its normal to want sex during pregnacy! its normal to want sex all the time weather your pg or not. just get the dang dildo and do it to it!.
2006-09-08 01:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by naightengale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st word of advice. Don't listen to men's suggestions. you clearly said you're not going to cheat on him, so why is he telling you not to cheat on a "good man" Ugh and you can have sex, but of course you're choosing not to, so pleasure yourself. It's NOT a sin. If it is.. god damn I'm going to helllllllllllllllllllll.
2006-09-08 01:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by **~Dyke Princess~** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋