Why did you do IT?

Question

Dont mind the question, its just an attention grabber. Sorry tho.

Anyway, I'm in High School and there is this girl thats always flirting with me and trying to be around me. I like her too but she is shy and I'm shy too, lol
I'm scared to make the move, its frustrating. When ever I'm around her I just dont have to courage.
I cant stop thinking about her, How do I go about this.

FYI: I'm new to the whole dating thing...so take it easy ok?

Answer 1

dude, stop the gayness.......

she's not so shy if she is making all those moves around you......just do what comes natural........stop worrying about ****.

Answer 2

If this is a serious question then I'll give you a serious answer. (This is coming from a guy so you might want to take this answer and a women's point of view and kind of mash them together) First of all don't rush it. You really don't want to approach her when you're not ready and stumble over your words. If you are shy, and she is too, then you have kind of an advantage. No one wants to make the first move. Obviously she is flirting w/ you so you already know she is interested. This helps. Whatever you do be yourself. The last thing you want to do is act like someone else. If you do this then for one, she will like you for the wrong reasons; and two, she will eventually find out you were never who she thought you were. Trust me the time will come to approach her. These things are funny. If it was meant to be than the time will present itself when you least expect it.......But then again I am single right now but I do think it is good advice...Good luck...Tell me how it works out....

Answer 3

When she flirts with you just flirt back. Sometime, just go where she is before she seeks you out and by your actions let her know that you came over just to be near her. After about a month of flirting, try to get her phone number and call her. When you call, just tell her you just called to say hello and talk about general subjects. Then start saying hi at school. Maybe wait for her after school.

You will have to get up enough courage to move toward her. Whatever you want in life, if you expect to get it, you have to be willing to step up and fight for it.

Just take it slow and be yourself. Everything should fall in place with time.

Answer 4

Your shyness is something that all people have in some point of their life. Most times it happens in the same situation you are in when it comes to the opposite sex. So you are completely normal.
I will say this, if you like the girl your shyness is never going to get you anywhere with her. She can't read your mind and she needs to know if you like her or not. If you let your shyness win your going to lose her. So just tell her how you feel. Its either saying the truth or being controlled by your shyness and getting no where in life which in later years you will come to regret.

Answer 5

Hi Me?

How about if you write her
a note (no names), but
one she'll recognize as
yours, and ask her to
reply. Sounds like fun,
and you'll get to know
each other better.
Good luck, and don't worry
a lot of us won't admit it
but we've been there!

Answer 6

I understand my friend.

notes. that's right I too had a shy problem and found that if I wrote what I wanted to say and handed it to her ( my case him) leave when she reads it. there your problem of talking is over and your shyness isn't a problem when she reads it.
its romantic and fun.
good luck

Answer 7

You're gonna just have to bite the bullet and say what you feel to her.
Just walk up to her and tell her that you really like her etc

Answer 8

1. never ask this on the Internet, it probably will haunt you in the near future
2. just ask the person what you want to ask, if you really want to ask it should be natural [kind of]

Answer 9

sounds like she might like you back so just say hi and ask if she has seen a movie lately

Answer 10

ask for her email address. you can get to know each other on there and you'll feel less shy around her.