I just want to calm him down because he is shying away from me and I wont to place him in a predicament.
He has had physical reactions and also has changed his behavior towards me.
I understand that he has choosen to express his sexuality in that way and must be complicated to consider that his choice could hesitate because something like this.
2006-09-07 17:34:44 · 14 answers · asked by Sötflicka 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what?
if a man is gay it means he doesnt like women sexually!
2006-09-07 17:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whether we like it or not, you have to 'accept' yourself before you come out. Sometimes, even if there is a happy ending, the process can be quite traumatic. If "suddenly" you realise you have feelings for a person of the opposite sex, you can either be really happy about it (if you still haven't really accepted yourself as a gay person), or be really miserable about it, because it would actually feel like "no, I had to go through a lot to be a gay person, now I'm not going back", kind of thing. You need A LOT of patience, but if you think it'd really work, you can explain that it's ok to have feelings for both men and women and that he should consider himself lucky because he sees the world in a way most people will never do (possibly including myself, I'm sad to admit). But then that's only my theory.
2006-09-08 00:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by astroboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality falls along a spectrum it's not gay or straight only, it's a broad range of behavior. That said, if he's said he was gay, leave it alone. I could be wrong but I get the feeling that you are the one who wants more, you will just be disappointed in the long-run, if he's predominately gay, you lose. Sorry to be so blunt, but I don't want to see you waste time on a relationship that should remain as friends. Good luck to you.
2006-09-07 18:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a guy is gay doesn't mean along the road he won't see or meet a woman he's attracted to, it amazes me that some people get so shocked by this and then say "buy you're gay". Nothing's written in stone and there's different kids/levels of love isn't there.
2006-09-08 02:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, a lot of the time us Gay people see girls as a friend and this can cause mixed up signs.
You might think that in his bodylanguage he is saying one thing when really he is just being open and comfortable with you as a firend as you would be with another girlfriend.
If you really want to find out be careful because you trying to prove a point of him being straight might be enough to drive him away.
Good luck
Ash
2006-09-10 11:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by Asherz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your English but here goes....
a gay man does not get turned on by women.
a bisexual man enjoys both men and women
if he is now experiencing reactions to a woman he is bi. Talk to him. You can not have any kind of relationship without communication.
2006-09-07 18:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably like me, bi and just wish he was gay. he also may have never experienced anything with a woman and wonders what it would be like. he is probably bi and has only had encounters with men.
2006-09-07 17:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you bud is bi, or he thinks you are reading him wrong and is backing off to spare your feelings.
2006-09-07 18:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible problem, darling
2006-09-07 22:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Canute 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ain't you people got any thing better to do than ask stupid sexual questions? There's more to life than sex you know...like scoring!
2006-09-07 18:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hacker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋