if his sh*t keep flopping. or would u try to work with dude? i think i would bounce!
2006-09-07 17:27:08 · 20 answers · asked by smartsexycurvy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I did dump a boyfriend because he was limp. I knew it wasn't his fault. But I had problems of my own and to "work it out" with someone who can't get it up, no thanks. I am married now and my hubby can get a rock solid on demand. That's the way, baby. It also turns me on and I can reach my point of blast off with a hard one. Whahoo!
2006-09-07 17:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by whatzerface 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first and foremost guys do not fundamentally change. If he lacks initiative, he will always lack it and your attempts to change him will be seen as nagging at some point. It sounds to me like you are confusing your attraction to him for potential. Even if you are not the problem with potential is that without initiative and drive it's like a car without gasoline, not much good to anyone. I think you answered our own question, ("Which is a deal breaker for me"). You are not happy with his living conditions because your standard of living is different then his. You must first of all accept the fact that this will not change, then ask yourself if you can live this way. If you can't then don't waste another month of your life. The longer you stay the unhappier you will be and the harder it will be to leave. He may or may not change over time, but you really need to ask yourself if you are willing to take that chance with your life. And Please do NOT Take the suggestion to have him move in with you. if you do you will just be shifting his dependancy from his dad to you.
2016-03-17 10:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the difference between you and I. If I truly loved him, I would stay with him and try to work through it. There is SO much more to life than sex. While yes, it IS important, there are much more important parts to a relationship. I, however, am an adult, and I realize this with no problem. :)
Ask yourself this same question 10 years from now and I'm willing to bet your answer will be dramatically different.
2006-09-08 06:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. would u want him to dump u for having fat thighs? I didn't think so! maybe u should look in the mirror as to why he can't get hard, k? try WORKING with him emotionally and sexually.... also, some men have medical conditions that can be corrected with the proper medications.
2006-09-07 17:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all you want from him. Too bad he can't stay as hard as your heart is! Maybe you are the reason he can't.
2006-09-07 20:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by southside 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always VIAGRA... (among others)..........
I would at least tell Him to see a Doctor for his problem.
And if I really cared for Him...I would stay with Him until we found a solution or something...........
It would HAVE TO BE as frustrating for HIM as it was for me....and "sex" is a very important factor in a relationship, but definately not the ONLY thing that makes or breaks "love".
2006-09-07 17:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I love the guy, I would work it out with him and recommend he see a doctor. If its not love, I'll tell him he has a problem and then bounce!
2006-09-07 17:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is bad if a guy can't do something right? well then why the hell are you with him? shouldn't it be not what the guy does but what his heart has to say? why look at that...? its what matters inside that counts. damn...people and their questions these days. sorry to be rude but its odd your question seems immature
2006-09-07 17:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice and ask him if there is anything wrong. Moral issues maybe! Psycology. I tdoes take experience to keep a guy hard.
2006-09-07 17:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kathleen T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THat question doesn't even deserve a response
2006-09-07 17:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋