first off please dont tell me about my grammar dont whant to hear it i know my spelling sux... this is a hard question... i have a boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and i really do love him im vary comfertable. Over the years i have had sex with 2 women (with him there im not a cheater) every time i watch porn the guys dont do it for me its the girls that turn me on and now theres this really beautifull woman that i have been getting to know via e-mail and im confused if i should meet her to see if insted of bi im total lez or if i should blow it off and stay with a man and only have my women when we have a "tag along" what should i do?
2006-09-07 17:19:14 · 20 answers · asked by brandy t 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
listen to you heart girlfriend,what does it tell you that you should do?
I'm a life long male crossdresser and am very much attracted to transgendered women and have been for many years but always
kept it a secret,i was married for 9 wonderful years to a woman that i was deeply in love with,she was very accepting of my crossdressing,i finally told her about my attraction to transgendered women,she was not very accepting of this,she ended up divorcing me and told everybody about it,i lost many close friends and family
turned theirs backs on me but today i am still crossdressing and
have been in a serious relationship with a transgendered woman for the last 6 years and honestly I've never been happier in my whole life than i am today
thanks Sarah
2006-09-10 20:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by sarah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been down that road! Shouldn't meet her Very awkward, what to do and where to start, they would end up getting it all and I would leave with nothing! Tag-along Bad idea unless you always want to see your man F**K another woman and that turns you on. Not a good relationship. 2 is company, 3 is a croud and 4 is just too many. One on one if you want it to last with the boyfriend, anyone can have a 3 some but it takes 2 to make a good relationship. A partnership.
2006-09-07 18:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow your heart !!! you said it you are just comfertable with this guy and maybe that is why you are looking for something more you don't just want to be comfertable you want love to...... I think you should tell him how you feel and then meet this woman and see what happens hell you don't know it could be nothing and you stay with him but if you don't you will always wonder what could have been........ Just follow you heart and you will never go wrong.....
Good Luck I wish you the best
2006-09-07 17:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. If this is something that you need to know, tell your bf. There's no excuse for cheating, ever. And, there's no excuse for lying, even when it's to yourself. If you think you may be lesbian for real, then it's something that you'll always want/need to know. Better to answer the question now than wait 'til you both have more life invested in your relationship. If he loves you, he'll ultimately understand that you needed an answer so that both of you would not be living a lie.
2006-09-07 17:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Alex62 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bi but not really ready to settle down with one person permanently. You didn't say that you don't like sex with your boyfriend and if you were strictly lesbian, that would be a problem. I went thru similar feelings when I was settling down with both of my husbands and with one of my girlfriends. I don't know what to tell you because I haven't found a good solution to the problem. All I can say is choose your actions and do what you want.
2006-09-07 17:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you're bisexual, if not gay. You'll be happier if you leave your boyfriend, since you clearly aren't sexually satisfied. If you do meet with the girl, make sure it's in public and all that jazz, because there are crazy people online like everywhere else. I think any woman who has sex with more than one woman is more than just 'experimenting.' I'm bi. I'm not worried about it. ;)
2006-09-07 20:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats wrong, dont lead him up after so long, this guy wont cure you, who you really are. He's your last shred of "straightness" you'll ever have, just let this human securtiy blanket go.
2006-09-07 17:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by zuegma1977 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y gay partners steevie and daveyy hons who are you fooling here?/ sit downe and have a long talk with your boyfriiend hons tell him its over with you are hitting the highway why?? you are a lesbian in every sense of the word-- now dont start throwing dishes hons- you asre using this guy for a cheap excuse, come klean you are a true lesbiann! leave and never look back hons hit the highway!! your relastionshipp with this guy is over with1 end itt now1
2006-09-07 17:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
u shouldnt cheat on anyone
if u like this girl, and want to see what happens with her, u should tell your bf or break up with him
do what feels right, just remember to be honest
2006-09-07 17:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself
blow it off and stay with a man and only have my women when we have a "tag along"
2006-09-07 17:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋