Is it wise to advice my bestfriend who happens to be my close cousin's girlfriend to dump him coz she deserves alot more than the sh*t she takes from him? only thing is she's pregnant. and he's blaming her for it. (coz she didnt take proper precautions and he refuses to wear condoms *rolls eyes* )
2006-09-07 17:13:16 · 6 answers · asked by Liz^24 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think about this.If you were in her shoes,What would you want for her to tell you?Us women have to stick together because if we don't,the men will walk all over us.Also talk to your cousin about it.Ask him,How would he feel if she was doing the same thing to him?Also talk to him and tell him how you feel about the situation.Then ask him how he would feel if a man was doing it to his mother,sister,aunt,cousin,grandmother,or daughter.Maybe that might help the situation.If that don't work then give her the advice you would give your own daughter.Also pray for her and pray with her.When you are talking to either one of them try not to say anything that would hurt their feelings and I know it might be a little hard to do but do your best.Cause everybody needs someone to give them advice or to let them know when they are wrong.In this situation you have to be a best friend and a cousin.Good luck and God Bless.
2006-09-07 17:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.pierre3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend married my cousin. Sigh. He ended up cheating on her after three kids and a house and cars and what not. I didn't hesitate to advise her to dump his *** and try to move on. I hated that he did that to her, and she and I had drifted apart after they married. But still, whomever is in the wrong is in the wrong period. Blood relative or not. He didn't like it that I didn't take his side, but he got over it. He knew he was in the wrong, he just didn't care one way or the other. I still loved him, just hated what he did.
2006-09-08 00:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if your cousin finds out.
I would have thought it was obvious that she should dump him after his reaction to the news of her pregnancy. She should refuse to have sex with anyone that refuses to use condoms.
2006-09-08 00:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dear, you are entitled to your opinion, cousin or not!!!!! I think it's great that you wish to support her in her time of need and I would tell her to forget the loser and make sure he pays child support!!!!!!
2006-09-08 00:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that ****** to get over the whole condom thing, and tell the chick that unless a guy wears one, dont let him. he willl either do it, or go home with blue balls
2006-09-08 00:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by misti c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, advise her.
2006-09-08 00:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by KAREN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋