They are like a group always hanging together. They seem like really nice kids and my daughter came home and told me Jake told her a secret. so I said you can tell me, my daughter told me that Joe slept over Jake's house and that Joe sucked Jake's wiener. I was appaud and I don't know what to do about this, Should I ban her from playing with them? I don't know what to do??
2006-09-07 17:10:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These kids are 10? You should not ban your daughter, I assume she is not spending the night with these boys. I would watch them closely though and if you see any inappropriate behavior from them talk to their parents, if you over react your daughter may not confide in you.
2006-09-07 17:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by malraene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would bring it immediately to the attention of the parents of this child also to the children and family services because often someone or something happened to this child. I would not let your child go around these children again because one child my sister played with I eventually found out the father was running around exposing himself to other children. And I believe he eventually went to jail for raping the little boy who was not his son he had abducted and passed off as his son so that he could get little children to come over. I told my little sister she was never to go back to the house because I recognized the father as the one who had been running around showing himself to the little girls where I lived. I should have told my mother but I did not know at my age at that time it was illegal because no one ever discussed this with children back then.
2006-09-07 17:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Faerieeeiren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your child to the Health Service clinic/Depatment. Have them show the problems/results of STD and the risks involved. Contact the parents of other children.Break a confidece be damned,dieing is forever!!!
2006-09-08 00:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by coffyadict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep her from them and go step farther. I would also talk to her directly and explain (I guess a little early) about sex (in a mild way) and good/bad touching and that that behavior is NOT for children.
I would talk directly to the parents of the two other kids involved. Clearly one kid learned that innappropriate behavior from someone and that is a form of abuse that needs to be investigated.
2006-09-07 17:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cabhammer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go talk to the parents so they will know what is going on. Boys at that age are curious and will try anything to explore. I would not allow her alone with those young boys because they might persue her to join as well. Keep a watchful eye on them at all times.
2006-09-07 17:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all where in the world can a ten year old be "coming IN" from without mom around.. and second of all what kind of "friends" does a ten year old suppose to have except girlscouts or somthing like this, and yes you should have already banned her.. and do you have to ask???
2006-09-07 17:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by uimblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! All I can say dont let your daughter play with them. Or if they play the need to be supervised closely.
2006-09-07 17:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other parents need to be involved.
Banning kids just makes their bonds stronger.
With THIS type of activity, you DONT want them sneaking around.
2006-09-07 17:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ron K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get more information, I would advise to try and not break your daughters trust . it must be good if she can come home and tell you this secret
2006-09-07 17:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would only let them interact at your house......Sounds to me like there are parents who are not paying attention to what the kids are doing.......
2006-09-07 17:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋