we have been bestfriends for 15yrs and i am in lv with her and i have told her this and she says she only wants to be friends this was 10yrs ago i told her how i felt and i can't control my heart well since then she has been giving me signs that she does feel the same way about me and said so in so many words we get along so well we laugh,hang out go places call each other everyday i can't get her off my mind and during this whole time we have been with other people who both have been out of town working she is the only bf i have in town who i can talk too and she tells me everything too well i was supose to move 2 weeks ago and she has been telling me not too she would be lost if i did so i put off moving for at least maybe 2 months she was glad we went out of town labor day weekend with my daughter her friend &her two grkids i paid almost 300 for everything and the last 2 days she has been avoiding me when i need to talk to her cause i've been having some prblmes and shes not there
2006-09-07 17:08:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you should try and move on and find someone else for the time being. maybe she will notice your not around and want you back
2006-09-07 17:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to meet her in person somewhere without calling her first so she can't avoid you but 2 days man thats not very long but don't keep putting it off to long or it will be too difficult as for moving you probably need to move ask her to come with you
2006-09-07 17:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, maybe she has things going on with her that need attention...... If you are really close, I am sure that she is not avoiding you intentionally.....Give her a bit of space and call her in a couple of days.....Take care..........
2006-09-07 17:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are being used. If she is not there when you need her then she is not a real friend MOVE and Move on
2006-09-07 17:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you told her you feel that something has come between you, that you are feeling uneasy? ask her if there is something she wouldlike to share? let her knows that that the truth, even if its difficult to duscuss, is always ok.. good luck
2006-09-07 17:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by buxombeauty_1962 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they call it head games
just enjoy the ride while you can
2006-09-07 17:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Valley Mental Health tooele Utah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else to talk to
2006-09-07 17:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her, not us.
2006-09-07 17:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ron K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋