I asked a question not to long ago and it basically said that me and my boyfriend were together for exactly 2 years and he all of a suuden broke up with me because of our decision to have a baby. I wanted more then him so I was more emotional. I called him back to ask him if we could work this out because I feel likr he was my true love. We had just had plans to get an apartmant together, get married sometime soon and have a baby. But he told me that he did not want to continue our relationship. Well we still talk every once in a while. I am still deeply in love with him. But we and only been broke up for 3 weeks and he has told me that he already has a girlfriend. I can not believe that the real reason why he broke up with me was because I wanted a baby to bad. I really think that he broke up with me to get with another girl. We have been through ever thing together. He was my bfs for 4 years before we became lovers. And I have carried his child before. Did he leave me for anothr grl?
2006-09-07 16:52:40 · 8 answers · asked by ponytail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe so...Then again maybe he is afraid of the level of responsibility you guys were talking about. The girl could just be a way for him to feel untied and reckless. Give him a little time, but by all means try to go on with your life. If he decides he is ready, he will come back. If not have a wonderful life anyway!
2006-09-07 16:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by peace1274 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel sad about it, human change sometimes together with their attitude. Just bear with it, i not sure what happend to him. From your story, he kind of person who don't have respondsibility, only think of himself.
Love is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. and no rush. Boys look at 2 things, prettiness and good personality. You know what pretty is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. All the best to u.
2006-09-07 17:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he was seeing the other girl while he was still with you and used the excuse of not being ready for a baby to leave you.
Do not worry if he really loves you he will come back to you. Remember that there is always someone else out there that can make you happy even happier than you where. Do not hold yourself down, find someone else.
2006-09-07 17:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by JOHNNY V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know for certain but it certainly appears that way, sorry. Good luck in finding a new mate with whom to share the same goals and dreams as you.
2006-09-07 16:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 10:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by pachter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's undecided. He may have wanted another relationship anyway. sometime we play the fool for our childrens father and hurt the ones we really love...our children, ourselves, or someone we truly care about. let him go. think about your other child first, then yourself, and let him go when he realizes his mistake it will be too late because you will have realized your own mistake, HIM!!
2006-09-07 17:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by LILMAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he left you for another girl
2006-09-07 16:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he left you for another girl, you said it yourself in the story.
2006-09-07 16:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋