I saw my husbands buddy jerking off in our guest room. The thing is his penis was Huge it looked like a porn star I was very inpressed I have never seen anything that big, it kind of made me hot. When I saw him he looked at me and said hi and did not stop. I left the room I saw him later and he said he was sorry for what I saw. Should I tell my man or just keep it too myself my mans penis is avarage only like 4-5 inch. what should I do. I can not stap thinking about it.
2006-09-07 16:45:15 · 18 answers · asked by 1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all average is 6 inches, so you're thinking average is smaller than it really is. Second of all, you should never keep anything from your man because if he finds out about it later from the guy or someone else, he'll wonder why you didn't tell him in the first place and it might cause trust issues. Tell him about it, and remember that big ***** aren't necessarily all that. I know from personal experience - size doesn't matter, it's how they use it.
2006-09-07 16:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself. You have a personal problem and you need to handle it by yourself. There is lots of porn in the world and it is too easy to want to take a look. Whether on the TV, the Internet, or the guest room, porn is designed to excite and titillate. That is what happened to you. But in your case you could do irreparable harm to your life and your man if you go back to the guest room. You KNOW what will happen girl! You and the buddy are only human, and he is only a man.
Don't do it.
In the first place, it is only porn, not real love - which is what you have with your man. In the second place, you will be disappointed if you do it with him and hate yourself afterwords. In the third place, such a piece will easily hurt you during sex and could stretch you so much that you won't like any sex with your man. Porn isn't worth it. Be happy with what you've got and don't try for an adventure with that 'buddy.'
2006-09-07 16:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn Harvest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he did not stop, he was showing intent against his buddy's wife, not good. And your husband should be informed. The great thing about your fascination and fantasy, is you can keep them in your head and you will get past it. That part does not need to be shared. If you can't, talk about it. remember men are very sensitive over penis size. A little maturity here would not hurt.
2006-09-07 16:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by voncaros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you having trouble deciding whether or not to tell your husband--that his friend has a huge penis or that you caught him masturbating? I'm sure he already knows the size of his friend's penis and frankly he doesn't need to hear that his wife saw it. Secondly, you invaded the guy's privacy and you really should learn to keep your big trap shut.
2006-09-07 16:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur husband that u saw his friend mastrubating it's a must but don't tell him that u think it's huge. he might ask u what u were doing in the guest room the first place, then tell him the truth and don't lie to him( u shouldn't be around ur husband's friend in his room in the first place). plus u shouldn't tell on front of everyone that ur man is small, size doesn't matter, what matters is that he cares about u and married u.
2006-09-07 17:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i would just keep that to myself
OR
you could tell him about it, but please don't tell him that the other guys dick is bigger than his!!! Men are so insecure about that stuff!
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2006-09-07 16:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't ever keep anything away from your spouse especially your husband I would tell him about it but I will say your a married woman you had no business gawking at his thing and you shouldn't be talking about your husband behind his back that is so wrong if your going around looking at guys and wanting to keep secrets from your husband then you obviously don't love him I would never keep a thing away from my husband and I sures hell wouldn't talk about him behind his back a man's size shouldn't matter if you love him you should love him for him and only how would you like it if he saw another woman and didn't tell you about it or he talked about the size of your boobs behind your back bet you wouldn't like it
2006-09-07 16:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should've asked if you could help. I'm kidding! That's great that he just said hi and kept doing his thing! I don't think I would say anything to my husband if I were you. He will probably inquire if you were turned on and how big he was, etc. I wouldn't want him to be upset at the friend for doing that either. Better to leave it unsaid.
2006-09-07 16:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cara B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to tell your husband? What's he going to do about it? If you feel the need to have a longer **** then go buy a big ol' vibrator. There's a lot more to life than having something that's longer than 4-5".
2006-09-07 16:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start thinking of other things before you make a mistake you will regret. I would not advise you to tell your husband about the incident.
2006-09-07 16:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Al J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋