what are the signs of your wife cheating?

Answer 1

well robert you can look for a drop in sexual desire or doesn't care if she orgasms when you have sex, seems distant and always has something on her mind that she can't tell you about, always takes forever just to go to the corner store for something you don't need, has very little conversation or gets annoyed when asked about her day, makes claims about going to see friends that you haven't spoken to in years,has ladies night out 3 times a week , can never remember where she has just been,

Answer 2

Not coming home on time. Keeping her cell phone by her side at all times because she is afraid that you might see who has called her. Changing the way she is dressing,buying new clothes that she would never buy before. Acting distant from her husband. Not doing special things like she use to with her husband. Being irritable at everything the husband says. Makes up every excuse to try to get out of the home. I can go on but I think I will stop now. I was cheated on by my first husband so I know all the tricks and the trades.

Answer 3

I read the list and the one that they didn't mention was a spouse who is more attentive and loving, (they do this because of guilt) showing you can not take any of these as sings of cheating. The real problem is a spouse who believes or suspects infidelity could either be correct, or leading the person to do it. Instead of spending time checking up on these things, try to find ways to better the relationship.

Answer 4

* Your spouse spends an excessive amount of time in the on-line chat rooms.
* Your spouse pays less attention to you.
* Your spouse is preoccupied with on-line chatting, more distant emotionally
* Your spouse is insisting on chatting alone.
* Your spouse has unaccounted time away from home.
* Your spouse has a decreased interest in sex.
* Your spouse becomes defensive during normal conversations
* Discovery of a post office box.
* The toilet bowl seat is up, (men) and when you left home it was down.
* The passenger seat in the car has been moved and is not in the usual position.
* An unusual number of hang ups or wrong number calls.
* Fragrances of colognes and/or perfumes are noticed on clothing of a cheating spouse.
* Automobile mileage is unusual for claims made by cheating spouse.
* Your spouse explains a late return home as a result of having to drive
* out of town on business, but yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten mile driven. Discover the recent opening of another checking account.
* Unaccounted for hairs of a different color on clothing.
* Cigarette smoke on clothing that can not be explained.
* Credit card transactions for unknown or unusual types of purchases.
* Cosmetic, perfume or lipstick purchases listed but not received.
* An increase in toll and/or long distance calls.
* Increase in ATM withdrawals. Check the transaction record to ID the withdrawal.
* Income tax returns revealing unexplained travel and business expense deductions.
* Florist or jewelry bills.
* Credit card gas purchases that are inconsistent for the amount of miles driven on the car.
* Joins a health gym or weight reducing clinic.
* Visits made to the tanning salon.
* New hair style.
* Wearing hair spray, colognes & perfumes more often.
* Needs a pager, cellular phone.
* Excessive buying of new and different clothes.
* Sudden and unexplained change in clothing style.
* The buying of sexy underwear or lingerie.
* There is an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship.

Answer 5

It's a gut feeling for starters. Followed by,she doesn't seem as interested in you,in every way including sexually. She gets easily annoyed by things that didn't use to bother u. She picks a fight, over nothing. She blames you for everything wrong w/her. She's away from home more often than before. She comes home late w/an excuse that doesn't add up. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 6

A lack of intimacy, both physical and mental...if she is doing this she is either cheating and thinking about it...

The good news is that it is not too late, have a heart to heart and let her know your thoughts, if you really love her, you will be willing to work through this.

Good luck my friend, this is no easy road ahead no matter how you carve it up!!

Answer 7

It is called a man's instinct, you can tell some thing changes. This also implies to either husband or wife. No matter how hard he or she tries to act as normal you can always tell. Ofcourse if you are not so very very dumb.

Answer 8

1.new undies, bras,nightwear
2.more activites outside the home with JUST her friends
3.weight loss
4.you can't seem to do anything right all of a sudden
5.less attention to the family as a unit
6.all of a sudden new hobbies,interests in things never talked about before
7. should i go on

Answer 9

I would think that she might take more of an interest in her appearance, losing weight, increase of time with "the girls night out" , wrong numbers, late coming home, and unexplained absences.

Answer 10

shes pregnantand its not yours?? haha umm there couldb e many to many to list but if u think hse is she probaly is