2006-09-07 16:40:38 · 20 answers · asked by Elcy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After such a long time it is not going to be easy or quick. You also don't say why you want to end it so that limits my answer. You have to sit down and have a long talk. Start off with the truth whether it is I just don't think I love you anymore or I am just not happy. When you start off with the reality then there is no way to talk your way out of it. You may find you both feel the same or that the other person wants to try to work on it and if you are willing and want to then you do what you feel is right.
2006-09-07 16:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you've really had your fill, if you've reached the point where there is too much water under the bridge, THEN YOU WILL WANT TO GET OUT WITH EVERY FIBER OF YOUR BEING in the same way a drowning man needs oxygen. Change your phone number, sever all contacts with the person===Don't return their phone calls. Don't answer the door when they come knocking. Do whatever you have to do to extricate yourself from the relationship.
2006-09-07 17:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say why the relationship has been on and off for 7 years. But it doesn't sound as if the relationship is really solid. I would let the relationship go and move forward.
2006-09-07 16:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up sucks there is no easy way to do it first of all. Second thing to remember is to expect the grieving process to stick around awhile. With every change comes grieving. It will be difficult but just talk it through with your boyfriend/girlfriend. If you know its not right...that is commendable to admit! Just look to the future with a positive attitude and there is someone else out there waiting for you alone.
2006-09-07 16:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by LNZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you've been dating for 7 years then you must be really close. I would just address to your partner that you are not any longer comfortable in a dating relationship with him/her...And be sensable about the subject.
2006-09-07 16:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by lil_tappe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm hy gay partners steviie and davey hons, owe my 7 long years have drageed bye hons and your still siting around bored out of minds in this half, baked, relationshipp for 7 years hons?? if its ben on and off for 7 years hons and your niot happy hons time too hit the highway of life call it quits hons!! move on downe that lonely highway pack suit case and just leave its over with hons!1
2006-09-07 16:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is always hard to do. It is you to do the call if you decide to end the relationship then simply say NO to him.
2006-09-07 16:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS IN THIS RELATIONSHIP FOR 4 YEARS AND SOME BAD THINGS HAPPEN SO IT HAD TO END. IF YOU GUYS ARE FIGHTING OVER LITTLE THINGS WORK IT OUT BUT IF IT IS WORST THEN THAT MAKE THE RIGHT DES ION. DO WHAT YOUR HEART TELLS YOU.
2006-09-07 16:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by LILYANNA69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "Honey, we have tried for 7 yrs but, we have to finally admit it's not ever going to work. Let's end it for good now and get on with our lives." How's that?
2006-09-07 16:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just explain to that person that you don't see the relationship going any where. So you think that yall should go yall separate ways
2006-09-07 16:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by volcano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋