Why am I always looking for a man to fill this void ? Why do I think being intimate will "fix" me ?
2006-09-07 16:24:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
cause you are a shlut. also your a.ss is fat.
2006-09-07 16:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by BestGuitaristEver! 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You're looking for love in all the wrong places. Being intimate with different people, wil not fill your void. It will only make it worse. You need to find your self worth and realize that you don't have to be intimate to get anyone.
2006-09-07 16:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you are not comfortable with yourself, gal. There are subconscious issues that trouble you, likely insecurity and fear of the unknown.
I have a library full of books that define issues like this, and its evil twin 'codependency.' I doubt you want to hear all the jargon so I'll just recommend one terrific read by a gal named Sarah Ban Breathnach. It's called 'Something More: Excavating Your Authentic Self.' It gives exactly the information you are seeking, but it's funny and easy to read. All the advice is phrased in terms of an archeological dig.
Remember the old Gnostic axiom: 'as within, so without.' Whatever troubles you on the inside will show up on behaviors on the outside.
When you are able to spend longer periods of time on your own, in serenity, then you'll know you've got it right.
2006-09-07 16:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by ax2usn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DrunkPenguin... a real small piece of you? lol ;)
Are you serious with this question because that's tough. My go at it is you're not happy with yourself and you think having an intimate relationship will make you better or make you seem more of a worthwhile person.
Figure out why you're not happy with yourself and try to work on it.
Or just piss away money to a therapist to help you figure it out.
2006-09-07 16:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by stimply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u obviously have a lvl that most guys cant reach. mayb u cant b satisfied. as 4 the intimate part mayb u r a nympho. 4 me its the best feelin in the world knowin that she is fixin 2 explode as she digs her nails into my back and wraps her leg around me pullin me deeper and deeper inside. that feelin that "fixes" u is 1 of a kind. too bad it cant b felt anytime anywhere
thanx-a-million
nate
2006-09-07 17:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by supernate the star*catcher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Early programing would be my guess, your not the only one. God knows I was harased into marriage by family, fortunatly for the most part it has worked out fine. I wish people would realize though that having a relationship is not the end-all be-all. Sometimes alone is better.
2006-09-07 16:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tom H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not have a good relationship with your father? Most of these insecure feelings stem from your relationship with your father. Was he accepting of you or did he not ever show you affection as a child or to this day? Studies show that this is very true. Do the research and you might find it interesting!
2006-09-07 16:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by LNZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like we all want to feel wanted, why wouldn't we? Would be nice to be held or hugged or kissed. But I need love to go with it. I get the physical every once in a while, maybe some day I will find the love.
2006-09-07 16:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Cara B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The void is yourself. Find you and you will be filled. No one can fix you but you.
2006-09-07 16:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being with someone is better than being alone, i sure know that. and being intimate, well wow, does anything really need to be said about the feelings that go with that?
2006-09-07 16:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word - companionship.
Although you maybe surrounded by a million people, you still feel all alone because of that emptiness in you heart.
Well, when God create Adam, He know that He need to create Eve also.
Because we humans, also comes in pair.
2006-09-07 16:32:01 · answer #11 · answered by ≈ ฬ ≈ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋