2006-09-07 16:13:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
isnt it important to try things out when you are young, so you dont become a bigot?
2006-09-07 16:16:41 · update #1
It would be nice if sexuality didn't make people so uncomfortable.
Almost nobody is exclusively heterosexual or homosexual. People shouldn't look for partners based on gender, but on things that actually matter.
Almost all straight men have homoerotic fantasies at least once, I believe. Instead of being little wusses, why not act on it?
2006-09-07 16:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan P 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
With that said, do you think all gay men should have sex at least once with a woman before getting married - is there any value?
2006-09-07 17:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by love earth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are straight, you are straight. Guys have hit on me before and the thought never entered my mind. I am experimental but I would never do anything that I wasn't interested in. I had interest in smoking weed and did more that a few times but I never shot heroin because I never had the interest.
You seem to have many homo-based questions. You need to ask yourself what you want to try and try them all before entering any lenghty, committed relationship. If you have these curiosities, they will follow you for the rest of your life until you do and it's too late to take it back. If you want to explore, do it now so that you can explain to your SO that you tried it and are fine knowing rather than 10 years down the line trying to talk her into allowing you to finally live your fantasies.
2006-09-07 16:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by youngliver2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many straight men have but would never admit it. Usually in highschool and when drunk. For some men, I think the experience (once they sobered up) would freak them so much that their homophobia would become even more entrenched and reactionary. Those who are gay positive to begin with would probably consciously welcome the experience and even if it didn't really turn them on, they'd still be cool.
2006-09-07 16:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Vos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not having gay sex and being straight doesn't make you a biggot.
I'm straight, I never plan on having gay sex, but I completely support anyone who wants to, and I'm extremely Pro-Gay Marriage. I know its hard, when people give you alot of crap, but don't generalize hetreos, please.
That being said, I would say no.
2006-09-07 17:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really..but I suspect that many experimented along the way...it is pretty common, you know. Perhaps, by your thinking, all gay men should have straight sex...you know the old saying, "you just haven't met the right woman."
2006-09-07 17:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are distinct chemical differences in the brain of gay people. If you're not gay you won't enjoy a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex and they are not out to 'convert' you anyway.
2006-09-07 17:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh.. no.
I have a serious problem with the casual sex thing, even when you're not talking about forcing people to cheat on their fiances with someone outside their sexual orientation (and any of the three parts of that would be enough to make me say that).
2006-09-07 16:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by enaronia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are questioning your sexuality now is not the best time to get married. Maybe you should step back before you make a mistake and hurt someone.
2006-09-07 16:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it would be worth a man to tryout gay sex
once in his lifetime. To be completely sure of what he want
before having wife and/or children.
2006-09-07 16:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by shadowkiss19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋