me and my husband use to make love everyday. and know it is like one a week. if it was up to me it would be everyday. im not sure what to think. i feel like he is not attracted to me anymore if so how do i cope with that. do you think he is cheating? what can i do to increase his sex drive?
2006-09-07 16:10:27 · 18 answers · asked by BB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't assume he's cheating just because you two don't have sex as often as you used too. I'm not sure how old you two are, but women's 'sexual peak' happens close to ten years later after men's 'sexual peak'. God's got a real sense of humor, no? Have you talked to him about this? Do you try and provoke things? Maybe you just need to get the ball rolling again. Next time he gets out of the shower, tackle him and have your way with him. I bet he'd love it. Maybe he'll return the favor the next day. Start provoking sex out of him like you would if you were both 17 again.
2006-09-07 16:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask HIM instead of everyone else??
Lots of things can lower a man's sex drive; stress, medical conditions, fatigue, etc.
Instead of automatically thinking cheating, why don't you rule out these other issues first?? Then, if those aren't part of the problem, there's lots of other ideas to spice things up again... but I would start there.
2006-09-07 23:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships hit that little bump in the road where sex wanes. It's up to both of you to make it exciting once again. Try new things like role playing or even watching a porno together.
2006-09-07 23:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spicing it up a bit. Wear different lengths and colored wigs, different outfits, make-up styles, and act different during foreplay and sex [maybe you could be the aggressor, or dominate, or act like you're a virgin on her first date]. Also, ask him what things you do not do, that he might like to do, or that you do he wishes you wouldn't. You might just be surprised.
2006-09-07 23:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is stressed out about something...
P.s. If you make love to your hubby every day - it would not be you personally. You are doing the "wifey" thing. Find out what's up with him, you just need good communication.
Good Luck!
2006-09-07 23:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by my2cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up a little bit. Do things that you would normally never do!! Examples: Play Dress up, Strip
2006-09-07 23:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow if you were my wife you would have to beat me off with a stick. Preferably mine. I think your totally hot.
2006-09-07 23:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe bored??!?
it gets to be less and less as you get older
Hopefully your marriage is more than just sex
2006-09-07 23:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN HE COMES HOME AFTER WORK GREET HIM WITH A BIG SMILE AND KISS AND ASK HIM HOW HIS DAY WAS SHOW A LOT OF INTEREST IN HIM BE VERY NICE TO HIM
2006-09-07 23:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE UR SEX LIFE SPICE BY 3WAY(VAGINAL ,ANAL& ORAL) SEX, BUT INTIMACY IS MUST,FULLY ENJOY THE THE SEX BY FOREPLAY , ******* IS THE LAST DISTINATION OF SEX SO IT IS BETTER TO GIVE MORE TIME IN FOREPLAY
2006-09-08 00:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by cock4lady l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋