Because my husband is usually so tired by the time we get around to it after work, I'd like to try some positions that require minimal effort on his part. But I have to say oral is getting old (maybe even for him)! Any inventive ideas? Thanks.
2006-09-07 16:07:29 · 15 answers · asked by mtnlady 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing inventive (Nothing new under the sun) but some very good ways to save a man's energy for when he needs it the most, you might say. There's nothing I know that's better for rest for both partners than the side-by-side position. This is best entered into from the standard man on top position, then gently roll onto your sides where you can both save energy but still have an enjoyable experience. Also, there's the usual so-called rest positions for men, the woman on top facing or face away positions. According to the skill and the level of action by the woman, these may or may not be restful for the man. Sitting positions are good to ease a man's need to exert himself and there are various ones of them. I would suggest buying one of numerous books on sexology which picture various positions and discuss them. Two particularly good books, both artfully presented, are "The Joy of Sex" and "More Joy of Sex" by Alex Comfort, MD, the first a classic in the field.
2006-09-07 16:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still interested in sex despite being that tired, try a hand job. There is no effort on his part, and married men seldom get hand jobs anymore. He might like the nostalgia.
BTW, I am particularly amused that the words 'hand job' was in the spell-check system here.
2006-09-07 23:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the cowgirl suggestion, I would suggest planning and lots of it. Planning takes much spontaneity out of sex, but it also allows for fewer annoying surprises and glitches. If he's tired after work, find out how he feels in the morning before work. Morning sex can be fun too. Just plan so that he isn't late for work. If his working hours don't match, you still get the idea of sex before work.
2006-09-07 23:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie on your back next to each other, then lift the leg next to him, so that he can penetrate you while he lies on his side. This position also allows for stimulation with the hand and vibrator at the same time. You can also watch a naughty movie at the same time.
My ex girlfriend needed very much stimulation until she came, this worked out the best for us..
2006-09-07 23:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by thepinm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gotta ride it honey. You can't go wrong that way! An earlier post suggested two good positions - cowgirl, and reverse cowgirl. Giddy up!
2006-09-07 23:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two should start a bit early and get things done.. a nooner sooner.. have a good lunch, now and then. Steal a 1/2 of day..call in sick.. good luck..
2006-09-08 00:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub some oil between your breasts, bring the breasts together and squeeze him gently and hard with them. Of course, try some in and out sliding motion with his d**k still squeezed in tightly between your breasts.
2006-09-07 23:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Confused_Rep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kitchen ! Baby oil on floor. Lots of fruit !!!
2006-09-07 23:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by DaAussie@Australia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby needs a bomb up his ***, invest in a toy and let him watch that will get him motivated!!
2006-09-07 23:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you on top ,take him for a ride, Reverse cowgirl, =you on top facing away both a re said to be (She) friendly.
2006-09-08 02:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋