My boyfriend came back to me without telling me he had made a dramastic mistake: had sex with a wrong woman and had a baby and being force to married her legally. I found out the truth three years later. He said it was a 'hate ****'. I can not understand and feel very painful. Is there such a thing of 'hate ****'? Does men really seperate love from sex? I don't. I am going crazy.
2006-09-07 15:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by nfr2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So is your boyfriend still married to this other woman?
Otherwise, who does he live with? That should answer your question.
2006-09-07 15:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun, that's nothing new. Men and women as well are capable of having non-detachable sex. You don't have to love someone to have sex with them. That's what you call a "f u c k."
Some people may find it arousing to go f u c k after an argument, or from hateful feelings. You never know who one' s mind work when it comes to sexuality.
I don't think you are a fool, you're human and we humans make unwise decisions all the time when it comes to our emotions. However, I don't think he forced to marry anyone. Unless he was in a chaotic country of sorts.
2006-09-07 23:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah theres you problem right there he came back with out telling you!Gurl he just might want some and then leave. look what he did before, its your choice but i'd say love and sex are always seperated with most men!
2006-09-07 23:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kayishere4you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what rape is. Think about if a random stranger walked up to you on the street and asked you to explain your love life. If you were embarrassed, you probably need to make some changes.
2006-09-07 22:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was forced to marry her? who held the gun to his head and what country did that happen in?
Why are you still with this so called man
2006-09-07 22:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his "dramastic" a** alone. He deserves what he gets.
2006-09-07 22:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Untitled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely we can seperate the two. Is it right, that is for the individual to decide.
2006-09-07 22:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Al J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give ur boy friend a banana,banana has potassium...he sounds like hes a donkaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan dungsssssss.
2006-09-07 22:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LADIES FIRST COME LOVE AND THEN SEX. WITH MEN IT'S SEX AND MORE SEX. MAYBE WHEN THEY'RE OLDER LOVE COMES INTO IT. THEY SAY THEY LOVE YOU BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU WANT TO HEAR THAT AND THEN THEY CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU.
2006-09-07 22:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋