How long did you make him wait?
Did you do "everything?"
Did you tell the truth about how many (if he asked)?
He's my soulmate, I know this. I'm so used to dating losers, I forgot what it's like to date a erspectable, decent man.
Where do I go from here?
2006-09-07 15:51:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hooo boy, where to start? My hubby chased me for 3 years. I wasn't interested in him in the least at first. By everything, I will assume you mean sexually. Yes, but I have more of a sex drive than he does. I am still trying to convince him to play certain games, after 10 years! I gave him a range. (More than 5, less than 10). He didn't ask specifically, but I was in a sharing mood.
As for dating a decent man, it can require some adjustment if you are not accustomed to it. (been there) Remember that it takes more time to build a stable relationship, so don't be tempted to rush anything. It will pay off. I wish you well
2006-09-07 16:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time wait until you feel it's right. We all know guys are always in a rush but let's face it if a guy decides he wants to make you wait he does just that. "Doing everything" sex is a risky business I would say don't do everything until you're sure he's committed in the same way. Never tell a guy how many they get all freaked out about it. What to do from here? Enjoy yourself and him the love of your soulmate is something you both should cherish and protect. From someone who knows the importance of the love of your soulmate but who was way to young to understand what it meant, fight for it everyday and don't take one moment for granted.
2006-09-07 23:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My soul mate is now my husband. I met him while I was in an abusive relationship. LADIES>>>>let me tell you the dark skinned knight does show up in Black broncos. LOL
He made me wait. He made me work for it. He never asked how many but should he I would tell him.
I love him with my whole heart. That song by evenanence....Bring me to Life.....Thats what he did for me. He made me open my eyes and see that there is a life outside of being beat up.
In the 3 years we have been to gether he has not once yelled at me or raised a hand.
I have my soul Mate
2006-09-07 22:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met mine here on Answers. I could not believe my luck! We are so into each other! I fell for him right away and in less then a month we are totally committed to each other. It is as if we have known each other our whole lives. I have told him things that I have not shared with any other person, and he has shared with me the same way. If you are scared about going too fast, then tell him you need to take things slowly until you are able to trust completely.
2006-09-07 23:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We waited three weeks from the time that we started dating exclusively, although we had known eachother for about 4 months! We didn't do everything the first few times, ya got to work up to it! And as far as I am concerned a lady never discusses her past sexual experiences! A few is the appropriate answer!
2006-09-07 22:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well as bad as this makes me sound,I fell head over heels with my now fiance within minutes of meeting him. I only made him wait 2 dates. We didn't do "everything" until a few weeks later. I told the truth about EVERYTHING. Because I believed he was it for me,I felt there was nothing to hide. We've been together over 2 years and are planning our wedding...so if you believe it's him...be honest. If he feels the way you do,he'll accept the good w/the bad :) Hope this helped
2006-09-07 22:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER tell how many before him!!! ALWAYS tell him that hes so good its like hes the first!! trust me, make him wait until the time seems right, i was friends with my bf for 2yrs and started hanging out regularly the last 6mo. and we just fell in love and we went out as friends to clubs etc. and it just happened naturally, i did make him wait a little while i would just make out with him. DONT do everything right away they have to earn that, a little at a time. Just be yourself, go slow, demand respect and give respect.you will be fine..good luck
2006-09-08 01:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by sexy momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.about a month 2.yes 3.he hasnt asked and number 4 we have been together for 2 years i'm 30 and he is 47 the best man i have ever been with i love him so much
2006-09-07 23:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you BOTH will know when its TIME, if he keeps pushing you dont give in he will respect you when you are ready and it is so worth the wait. Im now married to my soul mate and he kept me wanting more, he didnt give in and KISS ME KISS ME he would only kiss me on the cheek i thought, dang this sucks i wanted a kiss a real kiss he told me he would kiss me when he LOVED me, he finally did and i respected it so much it was awesome, like i said though hun you will know when its time and just go with the flow dont plan nothing everything will fall the way it was meant! GOOD LUCK
2006-09-07 23:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ CRISSY â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable still opening yourself to him, then wait until there is some trust there. When I found my true soulmate (my fiancee) I told him everything
2006-09-07 22:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋