Im a female, and Im just curious on what its like to be with another sexy girl
2006-09-07 15:50:00 · 24 answers · asked by â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ CRISSY â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO im not going to follow through with it WITHOUT my husband it would be cheating cheating is cheating you know but, i dont want him to watch either LOL i want it all for me however I WOULD NEVER GO BEHIND HIM
2006-09-07 15:56:51 · update #1
my husband likes it, it turns him on as far as doing it no he would be JEALOUS even if he got to watch!
2006-09-07 15:58:38 · update #2
It happens. Its normal (I think). Is this something you would want to act on or just a fantasy sort of thing you're tossing around? If you really want it to happen, you would have to seriously discuss it with your hubby!! lol! Would he be open to you giving it a go if you wanted to? I think that everyone should try something once, as long as its "ok" with your partner. Good luck :)
You added some details while I was writing.....Talk to your husband about it. Let him know that you are very happy with him, that you love him very much but you have been having thoughts about women. See what he had to say. He might be open to it, you never know unless you ask right?
OK so he knows already?? LOL!! there isn't alot you can do about it if he wants to be there and you want to be alone. He is your husband and he does really have the last say in the matter unless you want to cheat (which you don't).
2006-09-07 15:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you are experiencing is very normal. Many people, especially after making a commitment, tend to wonder what things would be like if they were single again. Even though it's fine to think about being with another woman, it would be morally wrong to follow through. You are a married woman, you made a promise to your husband so don't go back on your word now. You may continue to think and/or fantasize about it, but that's all that you are alotted to do.
2006-09-07 15:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by KG 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying. My husband thinks it's wonderful that i am curious. I think women are more loving and tender towards each other any way and it is easy to see why some of us are curious. My husband is totally up for me being with another girl, of course. I think a lot of women would say that they have imagined this or that they have had some sort of experience.
2006-09-07 16:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by country girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all I have to comment on one of the answers.....Just because you are curious and mildly interested in other woman while you are married DOES NOT mean that you are unfulfilled or unhappy in your marriage.....with that said
WHat you feel is TOTALLY normal. i have had the same feelings and discussed them with my husband and both he and I agree its not cheating. You may that is fine thats yoru relationship but in ours its not AS LONG AS its not a regular thing and its ONLY me and her. THen I tell him about it. Not only does it make our sex better when we talk about it but i feel closer because I am not comfortable with him being there. One day I may but not yet.
2006-09-07 16:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with a girl,what are you waiting for?. Just go for it.You are a very smart person,you don't even need to ask this,because,you already know the answer.So,if you have the chance,do it,try "the taste".
2006-09-07 16:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 90% normal........because the other 10% who have those feelings would never ask anyone ha ha...........many women would love to try a night with another woman but are way to afraid to get it started.......good luck and if you do it hope it's all that and more for you
2006-09-07 15:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by thats me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's normal and I know this will sound male chauvinistic, but it would also be completely unfair for you to pursue this and not let your husband watch or be involved. Talk about a real hit to his self image if you didn't include him.
2006-09-07 15:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by big_dreamer2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think it is normal
you should do it and not feel guilty about not telling you husband
and don't feel that the girl (or anyone else) is more exciting a person then your husband. The other person is more exciting due to their situation of not being married to you- not they themself being more exciting (if you married them you'd want an extramarital affair then too)
2006-09-07 15:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Hymn 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that a good percentage of women are curious about being with another woman.
2006-09-07 15:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not normal. You should have experimented with your sexuality before you supposedly fell in love and got married. If you were in love and felt complete and happy then you would not be longing to be with anyone, whether it be a woman or man. Also, feelings toward the same sex are just feelings of lust and you need to shake that out of your system before you hurt the man that you married.
2006-09-07 15:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋