I am meeting a friend in 2 or 3 weeks and am going to ask her for her phone number. We have not talked much in the last 9 years but still know eachother well. Do you have any do's or dont's that arn't so odvious? I am not going to ask her on a date anytime soon.
2006-09-07 15:24:15 · 22 answers · asked by BANG! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
take your time. if shes known you for 9 years waiting for the special time will always be there! good luck
2006-09-07 15:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since you have 2 or 3 weeks why don't u ask her for her number sooner. like if you guys are meeting in public, tell her it would be a good idea if you each had each others numbers in case you can't find each other... even if she's meeting you at your house or whatnot. you may need it in case an emergency arises and you can't meet her, you would at least be able to call her and let her know instead of her showing up wondering where the heck you are... that kind of thinking works for me.... smooooooooth.
2006-09-07 22:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a long time! Well what you should do is just say what you would like to tell her. And if you want her phone number just tell her, "Hey can I have your phone number because I would love talking to you alot because we havent seen eachother in a long time!" So good luck!
Hope this Helps!
2006-09-07 22:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by ~*xoxo*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her for her number and stay in contact. If you have not seen her for 9 years or about then who is to say you really what her number to begin with???? that should give you something to think about and then if you end up together good for you
2006-09-07 22:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of any rules for something so casual. I mean, don't try to kiss her buy or anything, but if you are interested then act interested. Well, even if you aren't interested act interested... lol. Women don't like it when men ask too many questions. And we don't' like it when you come on too strong. At least give us a chance to dis you. (That last statement was a joke from the answer you gave b4... That you aren't bitter.)
2006-09-07 22:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask her more questions than carrying on about yourself. Ask about her interests, and pay close attention to what she says. Dont push too hard- and answer any questions she has about you, but try to be more of an active listener than a talker. Make your meeting a fun one, where you have an activity to do, like ice/roller skating, puttputt, something. It helps people relax and be more of themselves. Make sure if you get something to eat, to offer to pay, and use your best manners. On top of it all, too, be geniune. I am sure you will do fine- have fun! If you have a good time, say you would like to talk to her more, that you had so much fun, can you get her phone number, and give her yours as well.
2006-09-07 22:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pull out your cell phone and say, lets not lose touch again, can I put your phone number in my cell? It's all in the delivery. She will of course, be put right on the spot, and do the polite thing by saying "oh absolutely, this has been fun." and then either give you a phony number, or ignore your calls for the rest of your life and blame it on her cell phone service. "Oh, gosh, the network must have been down, I didn't get your call!"
But I'm not bitter.
2006-09-07 22:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Trip S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you should make sure that you don't come across as a big love-sick doof. How much do you remember about her? Try to feel her out (not UP) to see what she remembers about you...oddly enough you should have hours of conversation based on her side and your side of every memory...who knows you might want to ask her out or you might want to just be great friends...
2006-09-07 22:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to refresh the friendship but not go any further ignore any flirtations on her part or make a joke of them.
Just as a side note, what makes you think she isn't thinking the same thing about you?
2006-09-07 22:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum, maybe you should be asking her out sooner than later. You see I have no idea why it would be a big deal to exchange phone numbers with old friends...people do this everyday. Unless of course you have a long term secret crush! Ask her out, be obvious for once!
2006-09-07 22:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is what you do, don,t ask her for her phone number because she is going to notice right away that soon you are going to ask her out,and also she is going to notice that your are to much intersted on her and when women's know that in that first date thay make you do a lot for men, My advice for you is to give her your phone number so if she is intersted in you she is going to call you , otherwise you just let her go and wait for that next one that comes ( PS) that's how men's do .jajaja
2006-09-07 22:34:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋