Middle school..help!?

Question

I just started middle school (this is the 2nd day) and im kind of..well,worried.I've kinda made some friends,but I mean,the people at my school already have a group of friends,or older siblings to hang out with..and I don't...I kinda know some people,but I don't know where they are at nutrition or lunch..im really scared I won't be able to make real friends..any tips on getting those friends to become real friends?I mean,anything I could do to get real friends?Sorry,im just really stressed..I don't want to be lonely,or be the newbie with no friends..and sometimes I even get close to crying in the middle of a class because im just thinking that i'll be lonely

Answer 1

Unfortunately you can't just search out "real" friends. You have to get to know them, make sure you can trust them, make sure they respect you, and most of all make sure they honestly care about you. There are a lot of phonies out there (I know the biggest one of them all) and it sucks to get your heart broken when you find out someone really isn't a true friend.

It takes time, but you'll figure out who's got your back and who doesn't.

Answer 2

It's okay. When I was in middle school (like last year?) I never did make a friend in any of my classes. All three years. The strange thing is, I did find my "real" friends outside of the classroom. Be brave and talk to the people you know during school projects and just smile. Sometimes the strongest friendships start with just a smile. :)

Answer 3

where are your old freinds.. i just went to middle school.. and i just hang out with my old friends. and if i cant find them i lunch.. i just like find a person in one of my classes that i talked to and got to noe them a lil bit and hang out with them.. then everyday i will get to noe them better and youll be close freinds.. you wont be a loner..