2006-09-07 15:22:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do because she is really good to three of her kids but awful to my husband. My husband isnt allowed in his own mothers house because of her husband. She lets her husband treat her kids like crap. I also hate her because smart as* comments she makes like she dosnt want me and my husband to have any kids because she has enough grandkids. She is just a piece of white trash and i really hate her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-07 16:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by mindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hate her, but I DO hate some of the things that she does, like tell me that I should let my husband go to a strip club, or go through my desk at work... but I do love her for some of the other things she does, like how great a grandparent she is to our babies and how much she loves her son and I know that if we ever needed her she would be there for that reason. When people say you don't just marry the husband, you get the family is entirely true!!! If you are having problems with her then try to ignore it and not let it affect your marriage. I know that is easier said then done. Almost everyone wants some level of approval from their mother in law and it is hard when they act as if you are the horrible harlet who lured their son away, but your husband loves you and remember he CAN be babied by his mother, but your the one he has sex with...
2006-09-07 15:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by wtrmlnqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an age old problem.
No I don't hate my mother in law!
There may have been moments where opinions were different but as in life accept the difference.
Nothing says you have to love her but for the sake of your husband try to show her some respect.
Women will take a little advice from their own mum but if poor old mum in law says anything she is interfering!
Maybe if you try to spend a few minutes with her now and agina just go for coffee together and talk you may find you can develope a friendship.
After all she was the one who brought your husband up to be the man you chose to marry.
Take care!
2006-09-07 15:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I try hard not to hate anyone. But, I have to be honest, there are someone people who I don't want to be around. My mother-in-law, who died several years ago, was hard to be around. I am sorry to say, she was an alcoholic and very opinionated. But, somehow, she seemed to like me and on rare occasions, we had some pretty good conversation. When she finally had to go to a nursing care facility and couldn't get any alcohol, our conversations were much better. I had compassion for her because she had not had an easy life.
2006-09-07 15:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by Songbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My soon to be mother in law drives me insane. She will fly off the handle at absolutely anything and upsets my fiance all the time. Thankfully we will not be living in the same city and she is not much for visiting. I think it is a law to hate your mother in law. Just roll with it.
2006-09-07 15:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by thehux 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mother in law is very weird. I don't hate her, but I don't love her either. I tolerate her and that's about it. She has caused my husband and I so many problems. She talks trash about me, lies to him and he makes me apologizes to her for things I didn't do. Until recently when he caught her up in alot of stuff and now he feels bad for believeing her instead of me. But she also tried in the past, getting his ex to break us up and when I was pregnant, she made remarks saying that the baby wasn't my husbands. We knew better, but it's the fact that she would say something like that. What is she sayin about me..her daughter in law. She has cused my family cused me, treatened me, she just has really bad issues. If I was a mean person then I would hate her, I have every reason to, but I aint like that. I just don't care to much for her. I would trade her in on a gold fish...lol
2006-09-07 15:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my mother-in-law. I beleive that she raised a respectful, hardworking, loving man and because of that she deserves all the respect I can give her. Do I always agree with my mother-in-law, no of course not, but she doesn't always agree with me either.
Blessed Be!
2006-09-07 15:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My beloved mother inlaw is a shameless hussy that lies constantly, manipulates everyone she comes in contact with into feeling sorry for her, and is very unfaithful to her husband ( she was cheating on him 3 days after she got married to him with her ex husband. Whom she cheated on with 7 different guys.)
I am glad she lives far away and since we are not of any use to her she doesn't have that much contact or visit
2006-09-07 15:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my ex mother in law oh mate was she a *****. she just had no respect and would try and tell me and my then partner how to raise our son and how to spend our money. glad im not in that family anymore.
2006-09-07 15:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Emma G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never hated my mother -in-law. She was a good hearted person. She's
not with us anymore tho. RIP. I respected her. Mushy sounding I know.
2006-09-07 15:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋