A blast from my past came back into my life a month ago and the reason we stoped talking was because I wanted more than a friendship but after two years of talking I found out he found himself a girlfriend, and that **** hurt my feelings so I called his phone and it went to the voice mail so I poured my heart out but he never called me back so I didn't either but NOW he's back and he still got his little girlfirend but I still feel the same way like I did 3 yrs. ago what to do? I don't wanna let him go but I think I'm hurting myself!!!
2006-09-07 15:21:57 · 23 answers · asked by brownsuga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You ..pick your self up and tell your self you are better than that and you are. If you weren't good enough for him then he won't want you now. Don't put your self through it ..why do you want the pain??There is someone out there who will love you for you just the way you are. Let go after all he let you go in the first place. I know what I say hurts but heck I have told it to my self and am in a loving relationship now. "I am moving on.. getting on and am happy now " I put that in my profile for all to see it was my motto back then. Find one for you and repeat it when necessary.
~Good Luck~
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2006-09-07 15:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing for you to do is let him live his own life and you live your own life. you dont wanna get hurt all over again by him, and by him having a girlfriend shows that he's moving on with his life and all that's needed is for you to move on with yours. i know it's hard when you really like someone, but if it's for the better then it's all worth it. there's no point in pouring your heart out to someone when the feeling is not reciprocated. he's not worth all that trouble. im sure you'll find someone in your life that will like you and may even fall in love with you, which is something that is worth having in the end. good luck
2006-09-07 22:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well, I personally think that it's not okay that he is contacting you now and still has his girlfriend. I don't think that it's ok because it can cause alot of problems. I think that you need to let him go because he obviously didn't care when you left him the messege and didn't bother to call you until now. I know that you dont want to let him go, because I am in the same situation, but it's the only fair thing because you are only hurting yourself
2006-09-07 22:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lessons_in_life10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting yourself, dear. You might care a lot about this guy but it's quite obvious he doesn't quite feel the same about you, or isn't man enough to deal with himself. Maybe you need a break, a change of job. . . . . . anything!
Talk with someone who cares and knows more. Take things easy a while. And think!
You can live!
2006-09-07 22:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by ChildofGrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Spaceballs
2006-09-07 22:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 years its over. You have no choice but to let it go. Its past time to move on.
2006-09-07 22:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! One day he will realize what he missed out on and then you will have someone special in your life. Let the past be just that!
2006-09-07 22:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting yourself.
Now is the perfect opportunity to get really clear on what you want in your life, your relationships, your house, your family.
Get clear on all that and then go for what is best for You. Your life is all about You, not him. Find what you want for You and don't settle for pining for someone who doesn't want the same things you want.
2006-09-07 22:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If he were interested in you, he would have come back to you. You said yourself, he still has his girlfriend. Just leave them in peace and move on with your life. Get you another boyfriend and let him be happy.
2006-09-07 22:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by boo66_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he would cheat on her, he would cheat on you, and it won't be anything personal against either of you. He's just a cheater. Don't be the one to break her heart. Wait for him to cheat on her with someone else and get dumped, then he's free game. (that won't be long) Don't give a cheater your heart or it will get broken =) good luck, play safe.
2006-09-07 22:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋